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2024-10-28 9:00
Drinking Habits
United Kingdom and the Drinking Culture
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In the UK, pubs are a hub for people to enjoy their favorite alcoholic beverages. By the age of 18, many people have at least tried alcohol. Drinking under the age of 18 can be risky and lead to dangerous or lasting consequences.

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We’ve all seen it. On social media, in books, on TV, or in the movies – drinking in the United Kingdom has its reputation. Old lads having a pint while fighting over the most recent football match, tourists visiting the “oldest pub in England,” or 16-year-olds enjoying a glass of wine while at a public restaurant may come to mind when thinking about drinking culture in the UK. What parts of these archetypes played in the media are true and which are an exaggeration? Keep reading to find out more about the drinking culture in the United Kingdom.

History of Drinking Culture in the UK

In a vibrant bar, two men raise their wine glasses

The United Kingdom (UK) encompasses regions of England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland. Throughout the UK, the consumption of alcohol increased from the postwar era in the 1930s until the 1980s. Between the 1980s and 1995, the amount of alcohol consumption started to level out but was on the rise until the mid-2000s since its last peak. The shifts in drinking vary based on social attitudes, marketing by alcohol companies, and the region's legislation.

Nowadays, the average amount of alcohol consumed per adult in the UK is 9.7 liters of pure alcohol per year or 18 units per week. This translates to about three glasses of a strong beer or large serving of wine per week — or 156 servings of beer or wine per year! Let’s dive into who is doing most of this drinking and in what regions. 

Drinking Laws and Customs

Throughout the UK, people over the age of 18 are allowed to buy and drink alcohol. For 16- and 17-year-olds, it’s legal to have a beer, wine, or cider while having a sit-down meal if an adult is present and buys the drink for them. In public or licensed premises, people under the age of 18 are not permitted to drink alcohol. Let’s review when people are allowed to get alcohol throughout the UK: 

  • In England and Wales, supermarkets can sell liquor 24 hours if they are a 24-hour store. The exception is on Sundays when liquor can’t be sold until 10 a.m. 
  • In Scotland, alcohol is sold between 10 a.m. and 10 p.m. 
  • Northern Ireland markets sell alcohol from 11:30 a.m. to 11 p.m. or from 11:30 a.m. to 11 p.m. on Sundays. 
  • In England, Wales, and Northern Ireland, the pubs, bars, and clubs are typically opened from 11 a.m. (noon on Sundays) until 11 p.m. (10:30 p.m. on Sundays). 
  • Scotland’s pubs stay open from 11 a.m. until midnight. 
  • With a special license, establishments can extend the closing time to as late as 5 a.m.


Customs

We’ve established when alcohol can be served and the legal drinking age, but who does most of the drinking throughout the UK? About 80% of the UK population reports drinking alcohol and between 50-58% report drinking at least once per week. Heavy drinkers, or those who consume 8 or more drinks per week, are estimated to consume 30% of all the alcohol in the UK. Across all of the UK, 17–20% of adults reported they don’t drink alcohol. According to a study released in 2015, most nondrinkers in England fall in the age range of 16-24.

Pubs: The Heart of UK Drinking Culture

An integral part of UK culture around drinking is pubs. The term “pub” is short for public house, which has a deep history and heritage in communities within the UK. Pubs provide a public space for people to gather, socialize, or eat and drink while keeping culture alive and relevant.  

Pubs around the UK serve as social gathering spaces and community hubs. Local residents often meet, share news, relax, and build relationships with friends, family, or community members. It’s common for pubs to host group events such as trivia nights. Pubs foster a sense of community and belonging. 

Many pubs in the UK are dedicated to keeping cultural traditions alive. A cozy atmosphere with wooden features, fireplaces, and low ceilings set the stage for the cultural traditions upheld in pubs. Often, pubs contribute to the preservation of history through their association with historical events, famous figures, or historical architecture that can be up to centuries old. Pubs uphold history and culture through traditions such as pub quizzes, live music, and themed events. They tend to feature traditional regional music and dancing to highlight and keep aspects of culture alive. 

Throughout the UK, pubs are more than a place to grab a pint; they foster a sense of community, history, and tradition that encapsulates the unique cultural landscapes of the United Kingdom. 

What Is Everybody Drinking? 

While we often imagine Brits drinking pints at the pub, the real drinking culture in the UK is much more diverse. Today’s pubs serve a full menu of the UK’s most popular beverages: 

  • Beer. Pubs throughout the UK are known for their beer. With a range of ales, lagers, and stouts available, it’s no wonder it’s the most popular beverage throughout the UK. Some of the most popular brands of beer are San Miguel, Guinness, Heineken, and Kopparberg, along with local craft beers.

  • Ciders. People in the UK drink ciders more than anywhere else in the world. Ciders are made from fermented apples. They range from sweet to dry in flavor, and they can be still or sparkling. Popular ciders consumed throughout the UK include Strongbow, Old Mout, Thatchers, Aspall, and Kopparberg. 

  • Wine. Wine is another popular alcoholic beverage of choice throughout the UK. In Britain, pinot grigio is the top choice. Those in Scotland tend to prefer sauvignon blanc,and Northern Ireland ranks chardonnay as their favorite. Prosecco is a popular sparkling wine variety in the UK.  

  • Whisky. I think we’ve all heard of Scotch whisky or single-malt Scotch. This popular drink originated in Scotland of the UK and is a big part of UK drinking culture. Popular brands include Glenfiddich, Glenlivet, and Lagavulin. 

  • Gin. In the UK, gin’s rise in popularity is keeping the distilleries busy. Of course, trends change over time, and there is a wide variety of individual differences not accounted for in this list. Despite the individual differences, people in the UK are known for their love of beer, wine, ciders, and whisky. 
Risks of Drinking Under Age 18

Has Drinking Become a Problem? 

As we learned above, the heaviest drinkers in the UK, which account for 4.4% of the drinking population, consume about 30% of the total alcohol consumed. On top of this, about 10% of adults who drink alcohol report consuming alcohol at least five days per week. Between 13% to 18% of drinkers over the age of 16 report binge drinking, which is defined as having five or more drinks (men) or four or more drinks (women) within two hours. Although the relative rates of drinking decreased in the UK over the last decade, harmful drinking such as binge drinking and alcohol dependence/misuse still occurs. 

In England alone, there are an estimated 602,391 alcohol-dependent drinkers, but 82% of them are not seeking treatment for it. Alcohol-dependent drinkers crave alcohol, are unable to control their drinking habits, need more alcohol to create the same effect, or have withdrawal symptoms when they stop using alcohol. Alcohol dependence and binge drinking can lead to serious health risks such as heart attack, strokes, heart disease, liver disease, or increased risk of developing cancers. 

For people between the ages of 15-49, alcohol misuse is the biggest risk factor for death, illness, and disability in the UK. For all age groups, alcohol misuse is the fifth leading risk factor. Paired with the fact that alcohol is more affordable now than it was in 1987, alcohol continues to be an issue for those in the UK. Misuse of alcohol is dangerous for adults, but drinking under the age of 18 brings extra dangers to the front. 

Risks of Drink Under the Age of 18

Nearly 40% of young people between ages 11 and 15 in the UK have tried alcohol. By age 15, nearly 20% report drinking once a week, and 32% report drinking once a month. While the numbers are fewer than the adult population, the risks are higher. There are several reasons it is dangerous for those under 18 to drink: 

  • It impairs judgment. Our frontal cortex doesn’t fully develop until our mid-20s. Without a fully functioning frontal lobe, we are not as good at making decisions or controlling our impulses. Alcohol negatively impacts our decision making and impulsivity. The adolescent brain is more vulnerable to the effects of alcohol, which can lead to increased injuries and death.

  • It interferes with brain development. Drinking with an underdeveloped brain can alter further development and change the structure and function of the brain. These alterations can cause cognitive deficits such as learning or memory problems later in life. Drinking early in life can also increase the chances for a person developing alcohol use disorder later in life.  

  • It causes early death. Alcohol is a risk factor for early death in individuals under 21. Deaths include car accidents, homicides, alcohol overdose, falls, burns, drowning, or suicides. 

Resources for Substance Abuse in the UK 

There are many resources available to those who want to cut back or quit alcohol use in the UK. 

  • In case of emergencies, dial 999 or 112
  • A UK-wide treatment agency, We Are With You, helps individuals and families with alcohol and drug misuse.  
  • Adfam is another agency that helps people and their families go through alcohol treatment. 
  • Reframe can help cut back or quit alcohol. 

Quitting or cutting back on alcohol is challenging to do alone. Using resources at our disposal can help us through the process. 

Key Takeaways 

Alcohol has a rich history throughout the UK and in the heart of this culture are pubs. While the number of people not drinking has increased in the recent 20 years, alcohol dependence and misuse are a problem in the UK. With looser drinking age laws compared to the US, the drinking age in the UK is 18, with some exceptions for those between the ages of 5 and 17 being allowed to drink in a private residence or those aged 16 or 17 having beer, wine, or cider when served with dinner. Drinking under the age of 18 can be more dangerous to a person with a developing brain and is not advised.  

We’ve all seen it. On social media, in books, on TV, or in the movies – drinking in the United Kingdom has its reputation. Old lads having a pint while fighting over the most recent football match, tourists visiting the “oldest pub in England,” or 16-year-olds enjoying a glass of wine while at a public restaurant may come to mind when thinking about drinking culture in the UK. What parts of these archetypes played in the media are true and which are an exaggeration? Keep reading to find out more about the drinking culture in the United Kingdom.

History of Drinking Culture in the UK

In a vibrant bar, two men raise their wine glasses

The United Kingdom (UK) encompasses regions of England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland. Throughout the UK, the consumption of alcohol increased from the postwar era in the 1930s until the 1980s. Between the 1980s and 1995, the amount of alcohol consumption started to level out but was on the rise until the mid-2000s since its last peak. The shifts in drinking vary based on social attitudes, marketing by alcohol companies, and the region's legislation.

Nowadays, the average amount of alcohol consumed per adult in the UK is 9.7 liters of pure alcohol per year or 18 units per week. This translates to about three glasses of a strong beer or large serving of wine per week — or 156 servings of beer or wine per year! Let’s dive into who is doing most of this drinking and in what regions. 

Drinking Laws and Customs

Throughout the UK, people over the age of 18 are allowed to buy and drink alcohol. For 16- and 17-year-olds, it’s legal to have a beer, wine, or cider while having a sit-down meal if an adult is present and buys the drink for them. In public or licensed premises, people under the age of 18 are not permitted to drink alcohol. Let’s review when people are allowed to get alcohol throughout the UK: 

  • In England and Wales, supermarkets can sell liquor 24 hours if they are a 24-hour store. The exception is on Sundays when liquor can’t be sold until 10 a.m. 
  • In Scotland, alcohol is sold between 10 a.m. and 10 p.m. 
  • Northern Ireland markets sell alcohol from 11:30 a.m. to 11 p.m. or from 11:30 a.m. to 11 p.m. on Sundays. 
  • In England, Wales, and Northern Ireland, the pubs, bars, and clubs are typically opened from 11 a.m. (noon on Sundays) until 11 p.m. (10:30 p.m. on Sundays). 
  • Scotland’s pubs stay open from 11 a.m. until midnight. 
  • With a special license, establishments can extend the closing time to as late as 5 a.m.


Customs

We’ve established when alcohol can be served and the legal drinking age, but who does most of the drinking throughout the UK? About 80% of the UK population reports drinking alcohol and between 50-58% report drinking at least once per week. Heavy drinkers, or those who consume 8 or more drinks per week, are estimated to consume 30% of all the alcohol in the UK. Across all of the UK, 17–20% of adults reported they don’t drink alcohol. According to a study released in 2015, most nondrinkers in England fall in the age range of 16-24.

Pubs: The Heart of UK Drinking Culture

An integral part of UK culture around drinking is pubs. The term “pub” is short for public house, which has a deep history and heritage in communities within the UK. Pubs provide a public space for people to gather, socialize, or eat and drink while keeping culture alive and relevant.  

Pubs around the UK serve as social gathering spaces and community hubs. Local residents often meet, share news, relax, and build relationships with friends, family, or community members. It’s common for pubs to host group events such as trivia nights. Pubs foster a sense of community and belonging. 

Many pubs in the UK are dedicated to keeping cultural traditions alive. A cozy atmosphere with wooden features, fireplaces, and low ceilings set the stage for the cultural traditions upheld in pubs. Often, pubs contribute to the preservation of history through their association with historical events, famous figures, or historical architecture that can be up to centuries old. Pubs uphold history and culture through traditions such as pub quizzes, live music, and themed events. They tend to feature traditional regional music and dancing to highlight and keep aspects of culture alive. 

Throughout the UK, pubs are more than a place to grab a pint; they foster a sense of community, history, and tradition that encapsulates the unique cultural landscapes of the United Kingdom. 

What Is Everybody Drinking? 

While we often imagine Brits drinking pints at the pub, the real drinking culture in the UK is much more diverse. Today’s pubs serve a full menu of the UK’s most popular beverages: 

  • Beer. Pubs throughout the UK are known for their beer. With a range of ales, lagers, and stouts available, it’s no wonder it’s the most popular beverage throughout the UK. Some of the most popular brands of beer are San Miguel, Guinness, Heineken, and Kopparberg, along with local craft beers.

  • Ciders. People in the UK drink ciders more than anywhere else in the world. Ciders are made from fermented apples. They range from sweet to dry in flavor, and they can be still or sparkling. Popular ciders consumed throughout the UK include Strongbow, Old Mout, Thatchers, Aspall, and Kopparberg. 

  • Wine. Wine is another popular alcoholic beverage of choice throughout the UK. In Britain, pinot grigio is the top choice. Those in Scotland tend to prefer sauvignon blanc,and Northern Ireland ranks chardonnay as their favorite. Prosecco is a popular sparkling wine variety in the UK.  

  • Whisky. I think we’ve all heard of Scotch whisky or single-malt Scotch. This popular drink originated in Scotland of the UK and is a big part of UK drinking culture. Popular brands include Glenfiddich, Glenlivet, and Lagavulin. 

  • Gin. In the UK, gin’s rise in popularity is keeping the distilleries busy. Of course, trends change over time, and there is a wide variety of individual differences not accounted for in this list. Despite the individual differences, people in the UK are known for their love of beer, wine, ciders, and whisky. 
Risks of Drinking Under Age 18

Has Drinking Become a Problem? 

As we learned above, the heaviest drinkers in the UK, which account for 4.4% of the drinking population, consume about 30% of the total alcohol consumed. On top of this, about 10% of adults who drink alcohol report consuming alcohol at least five days per week. Between 13% to 18% of drinkers over the age of 16 report binge drinking, which is defined as having five or more drinks (men) or four or more drinks (women) within two hours. Although the relative rates of drinking decreased in the UK over the last decade, harmful drinking such as binge drinking and alcohol dependence/misuse still occurs. 

In England alone, there are an estimated 602,391 alcohol-dependent drinkers, but 82% of them are not seeking treatment for it. Alcohol-dependent drinkers crave alcohol, are unable to control their drinking habits, need more alcohol to create the same effect, or have withdrawal symptoms when they stop using alcohol. Alcohol dependence and binge drinking can lead to serious health risks such as heart attack, strokes, heart disease, liver disease, or increased risk of developing cancers. 

For people between the ages of 15-49, alcohol misuse is the biggest risk factor for death, illness, and disability in the UK. For all age groups, alcohol misuse is the fifth leading risk factor. Paired with the fact that alcohol is more affordable now than it was in 1987, alcohol continues to be an issue for those in the UK. Misuse of alcohol is dangerous for adults, but drinking under the age of 18 brings extra dangers to the front. 

Risks of Drink Under the Age of 18

Nearly 40% of young people between ages 11 and 15 in the UK have tried alcohol. By age 15, nearly 20% report drinking once a week, and 32% report drinking once a month. While the numbers are fewer than the adult population, the risks are higher. There are several reasons it is dangerous for those under 18 to drink: 

  • It impairs judgment. Our frontal cortex doesn’t fully develop until our mid-20s. Without a fully functioning frontal lobe, we are not as good at making decisions or controlling our impulses. Alcohol negatively impacts our decision making and impulsivity. The adolescent brain is more vulnerable to the effects of alcohol, which can lead to increased injuries and death.

  • It interferes with brain development. Drinking with an underdeveloped brain can alter further development and change the structure and function of the brain. These alterations can cause cognitive deficits such as learning or memory problems later in life. Drinking early in life can also increase the chances for a person developing alcohol use disorder later in life.  

  • It causes early death. Alcohol is a risk factor for early death in individuals under 21. Deaths include car accidents, homicides, alcohol overdose, falls, burns, drowning, or suicides. 

Resources for Substance Abuse in the UK 

There are many resources available to those who want to cut back or quit alcohol use in the UK. 

  • In case of emergencies, dial 999 or 112
  • A UK-wide treatment agency, We Are With You, helps individuals and families with alcohol and drug misuse.  
  • Adfam is another agency that helps people and their families go through alcohol treatment. 
  • Reframe can help cut back or quit alcohol. 

Quitting or cutting back on alcohol is challenging to do alone. Using resources at our disposal can help us through the process. 

Key Takeaways 

Alcohol has a rich history throughout the UK and in the heart of this culture are pubs. While the number of people not drinking has increased in the recent 20 years, alcohol dependence and misuse are a problem in the UK. With looser drinking age laws compared to the US, the drinking age in the UK is 18, with some exceptions for those between the ages of 5 and 17 being allowed to drink in a private residence or those aged 16 or 17 having beer, wine, or cider when served with dinner. Drinking under the age of 18 can be more dangerous to a person with a developing brain and is not advised.  

Drinking Habits
2024-10-26 9:00
Drinking Habits
What Is the Marchman Act?
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The health and safety of our loved ones is of utmost importance. However, seeking treatment is not always an easy task. Learn more about the Marchman Act and other ways to help.

12 min read

Let Reframe Help Guide Your Recovery Journey

Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!

The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).

The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!

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Ever been in a relationship and not realized how toxic it was until after it ended? Our relationship with alcohol can be the same. Luckily, there are systems in place to support us — even if we don’t realize we need them.

According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), over 94% of those of us with substance use disorder don’t receive treatment. Social and familial support are a major pillar of successful recovery. When supporting a loved one with alcohol use disorder (AUD), it can be helpful to understand the provisions of the Marchman Act, a Florida law that gives families certain rights to help loved ones through substance misuse treatment.

Let’s do an in-depth review of what it is, how to file for it, and how it can help us help our loved one.

Background of the Marchman Act

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Before the Marchman Act was enacted, two main laws existed to help Floridians with substance use disorder get care. Chapters 396 and 397 of the Florida Statute separated treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD) from other substance use disorders. Florida lawmakers found that there was a high comorbidity with substance dependence, and the separate laws became a barrier to accessing treatment. 

This prompted the development of the Marchman Act, which was enacted in 1993. The legislation was named after Rev. Hal Marchman, a renowned advocate for those who struggled with substance use disorder. It is also known as the Hal S. Marchman Alcohol and Other Drug Services Act of 1993, but is more commonly known as the Florida Marchman Act. 

The Marchman Act was implemented to protect those struggling with substance use disorder by court order. Over the years there were several modifications made, with the most recent revision occurring in 2017. The Marchman Act is specific to the state of Florida, but most other states have similar laws for involuntary commitment.

Next, let's get into what exactly the law empowers Floridians to do.

Florida Marchman Act Basics

The Marchman Act allows an emergency court order for the stabilization and evaluation of substance misuse. It affords family members or loved ones the right to request support for those of us affected by substance misuse who may be unwilling to seek treatment. For a court-ordered treatment petition to be considered, we must meet the following criteria:

  • Loss of control over substance use. Those of us with AUD may not be able to stop drinking even if we are aware of the harmful effects. Oftentimes we disregard priorities such as work, school, or personal care in order to drink. 
  • Inflicted or attempted self-harm or harm to others. Alcohol severely affects our inhibitions and ability to make rational decisions and choices. On many occasions, those of us with AUD can unintentionally put ourselves or those around us at risk.
  • Unable to make rational treatment decisions. It is noted that refusing treatment is not accepted as the only basis for this condition. There must be other examples provided to show that we are unable to make logical decisions regarding substance use treatment.

The two main ways we can have the Marchman Act enacted on us are if law enforcement witnesses behavior that warrants the need for evaluation or if petitioned by our loved ones. Our parents, guardians, relatives, spouses, or three adults with concerns about our substance use can petition for the Marchman Act. 

While the main provisions of the Marchman Act concern involuntary intervention, there are other areas pertaining to voluntary treatment. Now that we have a better grasp on the provisions of the Florida Marchman Act, let’s take a look at who may need it.

Criteria for the Marchman Act

Who May Need the Marchman Act?

The Marchman Act caters to people over the age of 18. While parents can file a petition for the Act on behalf of minor children, the Act usually isn’t needed because parents of minors already have rights over medical decisions. The Act is intended to protect those struggling with substance misuse and who are a danger to themselves or others. It benefits those of us heavily affected by substance misuse who are unable to make rational decisions regarding treatment and may refuse treatment.

Like all legislation, there are many benefits and drawbacks of the Marchman Act. Let’s explore the benefits of the Act and some of its shortcomings.

Marchman Act Florida: Benefits and Challenges

Studies show that there are greater rates of treatment completion among those of us who are involuntarily committed. Let’s further explore the pros and cons of the Marchman Act to determine its efficacy. 

Benefits

Since the implementation of the Florida Marchman Act in 1993, it has been amended several times to better support the needs of those of us struggling with substance use disorder. Let’s review some of the positive impacts of the Act:

  • Protection of our health and safety. The Act aims to prioritize our health and safety. One of the main conditions of the Marchman Act is the infliction or attempt to inflict harm on ourselves or another. By opening the door to involuntary commitment, the Act can help to reduce the risk of self-harm or harm to others. According to the Alcohol-related Disease Impact Application, the number of alcohol-related deaths has increased by over 70% since 2012 in the state of Florida. 
  • State-funded treatment. The Marchman Act provides state-funded treatment for those who are eligible. For those of us who may not qualify for treatment due to clinical or financial reasons, the Marchman Act helps reduce this barrier. 
  • Removes burden from our circle of support. Placing the decision on the court can help to remove some of the tension between us and our family. Involuntary commitment can often cause feelings of anger or resentment. During the acute phases of AUD, we may not be able to recognize that our alcohol use is an issue. This oftentimes causes us to direct our anger toward our circle of support. The Marchman Act puts the burden of power on the court, placing family and friends in a position of support.

Challenges

While the Marchman Act has provided beneficial results, there are also drawbacks of the Act that are important to acknowledge. Several challenges that those of us with substance use disorder face in regard to the Marchman Act include the following:

  • Resentment from intervention. AUD can make it hard for us to grasp the reality of our situation, and a court-ordered intervention can blindside us. We often refuse treatment even when we need it. External pressure from our family and friends to seek treatment can cause feelings of anger or resentment towards those who are trying to help us. Pushing away our loved ones can isolate us during a time when support is crucial to our recovery.
  • Processing period. Petitions for the Marchman Act can take days to process. Especially during the critical acute stage of AUD, the processing time for court-ordered assessment can be detrimental to our health and safety. The delayed processing of the petition can also allow us to leave the county or state, deeming the petition invalid. For those of us who could benefit from the Marchman Act, this is a major drawback in ensuring timely intervention for substance use disorder. 
  • County legislation differences. The Marchman Act is accepted throughout the state, but the processes may vary from county to county. This can cause delays and obstacles in accessing treatment, especially when identifying a treatment facility in a different county or when we live in a different county than our petitioners. 
  • Funding for treatment. There are strict qualifications for state-funded treatment. In most cases, funding for treatment falls on our insurance, out of pocket costs, and help from family or friends. Financial constraints are often a barrier to accessing treatment. 

There are positive and negative aspects of the Marchman Act, but in certain circumstances, it may be the only option. Let’s walk through the steps to filing a petition for the Marchman Act. 

How To File a Petition for the Marchman Act

Before opting to file a petition for the Marchman Act, exhausting other alternatives for intervention through voluntary treatment should be explored. Research shows that involuntary commitment causes higher rates of losing trust between us and our circle of support, damages to our social functioning, and interference with future employment. 

Different Methods To File a Petition

After voluntary treatment options have been explored and exhausted, the Marchman Act may be the only option. Here are three different ways to file a petition for the Act:

  • Independent filing. Through this option, the petitioner fills out the forms and submits them to the court. It is typically the most cost-effective option, but misfiling can delay the process or deem the petition ineligible.
  • Filing through an attorney. Hiring a lawyer to file the Marchman Act can be costly, but may make the process easier. An attorney can assist with ensuring the proper forms and documentation are submitted and help with preparing for the legal proceedings.
  • Assistance from a comprehensive intervention counselor. A professional counselor provides case management and can assist with not only filing a petition for the Act but also developing an individualized treatment plan. Hiring a comprehensive intervention counselor is often less costly than a lawyer and can be influential in the continuance of care.

Regardless of the filing method, the steps to file a petition remain the same:

  1. Identify a treatment center. Prior to filing a petition, the treatment center needs to be identified. A judge won’t grant a petition if a treatment center is not identified or there are no open beds. 
  2. Complete the forms. Each county will have different forms that need to be completed. The forms provided by the county clerk’s office may request a description, the location, the exact facility, the date/time of admission, a list of current medications, and a list of medical conditions. 
  3. Attend the hearing. Once a petition is filed, a hearing will be scheduled within 10 days. During the hearing, the judge will listen to the testimony from witnesses and either grant or deny the petition. If the petition is granted, the individual can voluntarily admit themselves into the treatment facility. If not, law enforcement will do so involuntarily.

What Happens After I File a Petition for the Marchman Act

A petition for the Act opens the door to a series of other procedures for obtaining adequate care. Let’s take a look at the next steps after a petition is filed. 

  1. Assessment and stabilization period. After the petition is granted,  the assessment and stabilization period begins. During this initial stage, the individual is medically stabilized and a comprehensive assessment is completed to develop a treatment plan. This period lasts up to five days while the plan is developed and further recommendations are made. 
  2. Petition for involuntary treatment. After the stabilization and evaluation are completed, the medical team determines if involuntary treatment is needed. The decision is based on a number of factors, including the person’s likelihood of seeking voluntary treatment, threat of harm, severity of substance use disorder, and judgment to make decisions regarding treatment. If the team petitions for involuntary treatment, a hearing will be scheduled within 10 days.
  3. Inpatient or outpatient treatment. Once the petition for involuntary treatment is granted, we are entered into an inpatient or outpatient treatment program. This period can last up to 90 days, but early release can be recommended by the treatment team. Treatment includes a range of interventions such as medication management, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), support groups, and counseling. 
  4. Transfer to voluntary treatment. After involuntary treatment is completed, recommendations for ongoing support are discussed. The team may provide referrals for voluntary programs, ongoing medication support, peer support groups, and community-based resources. Continued support is important in lowering the rate of relapse and recommitment. After-care planning may include outpatient programs, sober housing, job training, support groups, and case management.

Filing a petition for the Marchman Act is just an initial step in the process of recovery. Recovery from alcohol use disorder can be a long and challenging journey, but support from friends and family help.

Even the most independent movie characters have sidekicks or squads!

How To Support a Loved One During This Process 

Getting treatment for AUD is no walk in the park, especially if and when the Marchman Act is needed. Support from loved ones can be instrumental in the success of recovery. Ways to support a loved one through this process include the following:

  • Start with voluntary treatment. Acceptance and willingness to recover are a crucial part of recovery from AUD. While involuntary commitment can assist with acute health and safety issues, voluntary treatment often leads to better recovery outcomes. Many AUD sufferers find themselves stuck in the “dry drunk” stage in recovery, but commitment to voluntary treatment can help them reach full recovery.
  • Understand their resentment. It can be difficult for anyone to hear they need professional treatment to quit drinking or that drinking is even a problem to begin with. Understanding that feelings of resentment and anger may be a part of the process can help ease tensions between the individual needing help and those trying to provide support.
  • Take care of yourself. Recovery from AUD can be a long process. To continue to provide support throughout the journey to full recovery, friends and family also need to take care of their own health. 
  • Commit to the long haul. Filing a petition is only the first step in the journey to recovery. Support following discharge is influential in helping us navigate the road to healing our relationship with alcohol. While having support during the acute stages is important, having a strong foundation throughout the long haul can make the difference between full recovery and the risk of relapse.

Key Takeaways

For those affected by alcohol use disorder, acknowledging the need for treatment can be difficult. In the event that our health and safety and those around us are at risk, the Florida Marchman Act is a possible lifeline. Voluntary treatment should be the first step, as there are limitations to the law. But as a last resort, the Marchman Act has shown to have positive impacts on initiating treatment for those of us struggling with alcohol misuse. Having a better understanding of the Florida Marchman Act helps us stay informed on legislation and resources designed to support recovery. Here’s to marching forward in recovery with the Marchman Act!

Ever been in a relationship and not realized how toxic it was until after it ended? Our relationship with alcohol can be the same. Luckily, there are systems in place to support us — even if we don’t realize we need them.

According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), over 94% of those of us with substance use disorder don’t receive treatment. Social and familial support are a major pillar of successful recovery. When supporting a loved one with alcohol use disorder (AUD), it can be helpful to understand the provisions of the Marchman Act, a Florida law that gives families certain rights to help loved ones through substance misuse treatment.

Let’s do an in-depth review of what it is, how to file for it, and how it can help us help our loved one.

Background of the Marchman Act

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Before the Marchman Act was enacted, two main laws existed to help Floridians with substance use disorder get care. Chapters 396 and 397 of the Florida Statute separated treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD) from other substance use disorders. Florida lawmakers found that there was a high comorbidity with substance dependence, and the separate laws became a barrier to accessing treatment. 

This prompted the development of the Marchman Act, which was enacted in 1993. The legislation was named after Rev. Hal Marchman, a renowned advocate for those who struggled with substance use disorder. It is also known as the Hal S. Marchman Alcohol and Other Drug Services Act of 1993, but is more commonly known as the Florida Marchman Act. 

The Marchman Act was implemented to protect those struggling with substance use disorder by court order. Over the years there were several modifications made, with the most recent revision occurring in 2017. The Marchman Act is specific to the state of Florida, but most other states have similar laws for involuntary commitment.

Next, let's get into what exactly the law empowers Floridians to do.

Florida Marchman Act Basics

The Marchman Act allows an emergency court order for the stabilization and evaluation of substance misuse. It affords family members or loved ones the right to request support for those of us affected by substance misuse who may be unwilling to seek treatment. For a court-ordered treatment petition to be considered, we must meet the following criteria:

  • Loss of control over substance use. Those of us with AUD may not be able to stop drinking even if we are aware of the harmful effects. Oftentimes we disregard priorities such as work, school, or personal care in order to drink. 
  • Inflicted or attempted self-harm or harm to others. Alcohol severely affects our inhibitions and ability to make rational decisions and choices. On many occasions, those of us with AUD can unintentionally put ourselves or those around us at risk.
  • Unable to make rational treatment decisions. It is noted that refusing treatment is not accepted as the only basis for this condition. There must be other examples provided to show that we are unable to make logical decisions regarding substance use treatment.

The two main ways we can have the Marchman Act enacted on us are if law enforcement witnesses behavior that warrants the need for evaluation or if petitioned by our loved ones. Our parents, guardians, relatives, spouses, or three adults with concerns about our substance use can petition for the Marchman Act. 

While the main provisions of the Marchman Act concern involuntary intervention, there are other areas pertaining to voluntary treatment. Now that we have a better grasp on the provisions of the Florida Marchman Act, let’s take a look at who may need it.

Criteria for the Marchman Act

Who May Need the Marchman Act?

The Marchman Act caters to people over the age of 18. While parents can file a petition for the Act on behalf of minor children, the Act usually isn’t needed because parents of minors already have rights over medical decisions. The Act is intended to protect those struggling with substance misuse and who are a danger to themselves or others. It benefits those of us heavily affected by substance misuse who are unable to make rational decisions regarding treatment and may refuse treatment.

Like all legislation, there are many benefits and drawbacks of the Marchman Act. Let’s explore the benefits of the Act and some of its shortcomings.

Marchman Act Florida: Benefits and Challenges

Studies show that there are greater rates of treatment completion among those of us who are involuntarily committed. Let’s further explore the pros and cons of the Marchman Act to determine its efficacy. 

Benefits

Since the implementation of the Florida Marchman Act in 1993, it has been amended several times to better support the needs of those of us struggling with substance use disorder. Let’s review some of the positive impacts of the Act:

  • Protection of our health and safety. The Act aims to prioritize our health and safety. One of the main conditions of the Marchman Act is the infliction or attempt to inflict harm on ourselves or another. By opening the door to involuntary commitment, the Act can help to reduce the risk of self-harm or harm to others. According to the Alcohol-related Disease Impact Application, the number of alcohol-related deaths has increased by over 70% since 2012 in the state of Florida. 
  • State-funded treatment. The Marchman Act provides state-funded treatment for those who are eligible. For those of us who may not qualify for treatment due to clinical or financial reasons, the Marchman Act helps reduce this barrier. 
  • Removes burden from our circle of support. Placing the decision on the court can help to remove some of the tension between us and our family. Involuntary commitment can often cause feelings of anger or resentment. During the acute phases of AUD, we may not be able to recognize that our alcohol use is an issue. This oftentimes causes us to direct our anger toward our circle of support. The Marchman Act puts the burden of power on the court, placing family and friends in a position of support.

Challenges

While the Marchman Act has provided beneficial results, there are also drawbacks of the Act that are important to acknowledge. Several challenges that those of us with substance use disorder face in regard to the Marchman Act include the following:

  • Resentment from intervention. AUD can make it hard for us to grasp the reality of our situation, and a court-ordered intervention can blindside us. We often refuse treatment even when we need it. External pressure from our family and friends to seek treatment can cause feelings of anger or resentment towards those who are trying to help us. Pushing away our loved ones can isolate us during a time when support is crucial to our recovery.
  • Processing period. Petitions for the Marchman Act can take days to process. Especially during the critical acute stage of AUD, the processing time for court-ordered assessment can be detrimental to our health and safety. The delayed processing of the petition can also allow us to leave the county or state, deeming the petition invalid. For those of us who could benefit from the Marchman Act, this is a major drawback in ensuring timely intervention for substance use disorder. 
  • County legislation differences. The Marchman Act is accepted throughout the state, but the processes may vary from county to county. This can cause delays and obstacles in accessing treatment, especially when identifying a treatment facility in a different county or when we live in a different county than our petitioners. 
  • Funding for treatment. There are strict qualifications for state-funded treatment. In most cases, funding for treatment falls on our insurance, out of pocket costs, and help from family or friends. Financial constraints are often a barrier to accessing treatment. 

There are positive and negative aspects of the Marchman Act, but in certain circumstances, it may be the only option. Let’s walk through the steps to filing a petition for the Marchman Act. 

How To File a Petition for the Marchman Act

Before opting to file a petition for the Marchman Act, exhausting other alternatives for intervention through voluntary treatment should be explored. Research shows that involuntary commitment causes higher rates of losing trust between us and our circle of support, damages to our social functioning, and interference with future employment. 

Different Methods To File a Petition

After voluntary treatment options have been explored and exhausted, the Marchman Act may be the only option. Here are three different ways to file a petition for the Act:

  • Independent filing. Through this option, the petitioner fills out the forms and submits them to the court. It is typically the most cost-effective option, but misfiling can delay the process or deem the petition ineligible.
  • Filing through an attorney. Hiring a lawyer to file the Marchman Act can be costly, but may make the process easier. An attorney can assist with ensuring the proper forms and documentation are submitted and help with preparing for the legal proceedings.
  • Assistance from a comprehensive intervention counselor. A professional counselor provides case management and can assist with not only filing a petition for the Act but also developing an individualized treatment plan. Hiring a comprehensive intervention counselor is often less costly than a lawyer and can be influential in the continuance of care.

Regardless of the filing method, the steps to file a petition remain the same:

  1. Identify a treatment center. Prior to filing a petition, the treatment center needs to be identified. A judge won’t grant a petition if a treatment center is not identified or there are no open beds. 
  2. Complete the forms. Each county will have different forms that need to be completed. The forms provided by the county clerk’s office may request a description, the location, the exact facility, the date/time of admission, a list of current medications, and a list of medical conditions. 
  3. Attend the hearing. Once a petition is filed, a hearing will be scheduled within 10 days. During the hearing, the judge will listen to the testimony from witnesses and either grant or deny the petition. If the petition is granted, the individual can voluntarily admit themselves into the treatment facility. If not, law enforcement will do so involuntarily.

What Happens After I File a Petition for the Marchman Act

A petition for the Act opens the door to a series of other procedures for obtaining adequate care. Let’s take a look at the next steps after a petition is filed. 

  1. Assessment and stabilization period. After the petition is granted,  the assessment and stabilization period begins. During this initial stage, the individual is medically stabilized and a comprehensive assessment is completed to develop a treatment plan. This period lasts up to five days while the plan is developed and further recommendations are made. 
  2. Petition for involuntary treatment. After the stabilization and evaluation are completed, the medical team determines if involuntary treatment is needed. The decision is based on a number of factors, including the person’s likelihood of seeking voluntary treatment, threat of harm, severity of substance use disorder, and judgment to make decisions regarding treatment. If the team petitions for involuntary treatment, a hearing will be scheduled within 10 days.
  3. Inpatient or outpatient treatment. Once the petition for involuntary treatment is granted, we are entered into an inpatient or outpatient treatment program. This period can last up to 90 days, but early release can be recommended by the treatment team. Treatment includes a range of interventions such as medication management, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), support groups, and counseling. 
  4. Transfer to voluntary treatment. After involuntary treatment is completed, recommendations for ongoing support are discussed. The team may provide referrals for voluntary programs, ongoing medication support, peer support groups, and community-based resources. Continued support is important in lowering the rate of relapse and recommitment. After-care planning may include outpatient programs, sober housing, job training, support groups, and case management.

Filing a petition for the Marchman Act is just an initial step in the process of recovery. Recovery from alcohol use disorder can be a long and challenging journey, but support from friends and family help.

Even the most independent movie characters have sidekicks or squads!

How To Support a Loved One During This Process 

Getting treatment for AUD is no walk in the park, especially if and when the Marchman Act is needed. Support from loved ones can be instrumental in the success of recovery. Ways to support a loved one through this process include the following:

  • Start with voluntary treatment. Acceptance and willingness to recover are a crucial part of recovery from AUD. While involuntary commitment can assist with acute health and safety issues, voluntary treatment often leads to better recovery outcomes. Many AUD sufferers find themselves stuck in the “dry drunk” stage in recovery, but commitment to voluntary treatment can help them reach full recovery.
  • Understand their resentment. It can be difficult for anyone to hear they need professional treatment to quit drinking or that drinking is even a problem to begin with. Understanding that feelings of resentment and anger may be a part of the process can help ease tensions between the individual needing help and those trying to provide support.
  • Take care of yourself. Recovery from AUD can be a long process. To continue to provide support throughout the journey to full recovery, friends and family also need to take care of their own health. 
  • Commit to the long haul. Filing a petition is only the first step in the journey to recovery. Support following discharge is influential in helping us navigate the road to healing our relationship with alcohol. While having support during the acute stages is important, having a strong foundation throughout the long haul can make the difference between full recovery and the risk of relapse.

Key Takeaways

For those affected by alcohol use disorder, acknowledging the need for treatment can be difficult. In the event that our health and safety and those around us are at risk, the Florida Marchman Act is a possible lifeline. Voluntary treatment should be the first step, as there are limitations to the law. But as a last resort, the Marchman Act has shown to have positive impacts on initiating treatment for those of us struggling with alcohol misuse. Having a better understanding of the Florida Marchman Act helps us stay informed on legislation and resources designed to support recovery. Here’s to marching forward in recovery with the Marchman Act!

Drinking Habits
2024-10-26 9:00
Drinking Habits
What Is Outpatient Rehab? Is It Really Effective?
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There are many alcohol treatment options out there, and outpatient rehab has its pros and cons. Find out more in our latest blog!

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Alcohol can sneak up on us. What starts as an innocent glass of wine with friends over tapas on Saturday night turns into an additional mimosa or two on Saturday morning (hey, it’s the weekend, right?), and then a few more beers while watching reruns of Law and Order with your roommates on Thursdays, and so on. Before you know it, it’s easy to find yourself drinking multiple days a week, and maybe every night.

It’s notoriously difficult to spot just when the problem starts, but that’s beside the point. We all have our individual “triggers,” but once alcohol has enough of a hold of us, the main trigger for drinking is really our last drink. It’s a vicious cycle: no matter why we originally turned to booze, our desire for the next drink is now fueled by the aftereffects of the previous one.

So what do you do? Do you have to go to a detox? Alcoholics Anonymous meetings for the rest of your life? Rehab? Eek! It all sounds overwhelming. Then someone suggests outpatient rehab as a more “user-friendly” option. But what is outpatient rehab? And is it really worth it? Let’s explore outpatient alcohol treatment in more detail to help you decide.

Why Go Away for Treatment?

There are a few reasons when going to a specialized facility for treatment makes sense.

  • Getting medical care. If we’ve been drinking for a long time, suddenly stopping can bring on unpleasant withdrawal symptoms caused by a shift in neurotransmitters (primarily GABA and glutamate) in our brain. While these symptoms can simply be uncomfortable for many people, they can be medically dangerous, especially if we’re talking about seizures or delirium tremens (DTs).
  • Disrupting our routine. While leaving home for a month (or even a week) can be difficult, it’s often exactly what we need to make a clean break with our habits. Getting out of our usual surroundings gives the brain much-needed space to form new patterns and associations.
  • Getting on the fast track to recovery. The information and resources we get in a treatment program can often set us up for long-term success. We usually have access to a care team that includes medical professionals, therapists, and sometimes nutritionists. Immersing ourselves in recovery-related discussions, workshops, and one-on-one sessions is certainly a major time commitment, but in the long run it’s often time well spent.

How Does “Rehab” Work?

As physical therapist Joerg Teichmann writes, “In rehabilitation there is no elevator. You have to take every step, meaning one step at a time.” And while this might be true for many types of recovery, including treatment for alcohol misuse, those “steps” can look and feel quite different depending on the option we choose. 

Treatment facilities — or “rehab” centers, as they’re often called — come in all shapes and sizes. Let’s take a look at what’s out there.

  • Inpatient (and detox). This type of facility is the most intense, and it’s appropriate for the most severe cases of alcohol use disorder (AUD). (To learn more about the difference between AUD, which is characterized by a physical dependence on alcohol, and alcohol misuse, check out our blog Alcohol Misuse vs. Dependence.)



    Inpatient treatment usually involves a daily schedule of therapeutic activities and support groups to keep us engaged and focused on recovery. There’s round-the-clock medical care available for those who need it, especially if we’re dealing with withdrawal.
  • Partial hospitalization. Partial hospitalization, or “partial” as it’s sometimes called, is the next level down. It usually takes place in a hospital setting and provides similar services as inpatient hospitalization with one key difference: participants live at home and travel to the program daily, usually staying for the full 8-hour period.
  • Outpatient (or “Intensive Outpatient”). Finally, there’s “intensive outpatient” treatment, or IOP. While it’s a significantly lower time commitment per week, it can last for multiple weeks, or even months. IOP is often housed at the same facilities that provide inpatient treatment but could have a separate location. Either way, participants are usually required to travel there for a few hours at a time but have the rest of their days to themselves to go on with their normal routines.

What Is Outpatient Alcohol Treatment All About?

For those who don’t need 24-hour supervision, IOP programs can be great alternatives. Their main goals? Setting up an effective psychological and social support system, helping prevent relapse, and teaching clients coping strategies. The idea is to put us back in the driver's seat of our own recovery and leave us feeling like we have the tools to keep going and steer ourselves back on course if things get rough.

Now, let’s take a closer look at what goes on inside on a day-to-day basis.

  • Logistics: the typical day. Unlike Partial Hospitalization, IOP programs usually don’t meet every day. We might be looking at three or four days a week, usually for about three or four hours at a time. Sessions are typically held either in the morning (for example 9 until noon) or evening (5 until 8). 



    The time block is broken up into individual sessions, which focus on different aspects of recovery, with breaks in between (we’ll touch on the details of what might be covered below). At least one is usually a “process” session for clients to talk about any general issues going on, and to assess their overall progress. 
  • Addressing withdrawal. While withdrawal sometimes requires medical supervision to get through safely, that’s not always the case. If our symptoms are mild — no seizures or delirium tremens — we might be able to handle them on an outpatient basis, with access to medical professionals, or the option to move up to a higher level of care if we need to.
  • Therapeutic activities. Some sessions might be centered on therapeutic activities, such as art therapy, journaling, or meditation. Alcohol misuse recovery can feel like a daunting process, and tackling it is a highly personalized matter. What works for some folks might not work for others, so it’s good to give different types of therapeutic approaches a fair try, even if it seems a bit cheesy at first glance. (We know, coloring emotion wheels is not for everyone, but let’s not rule it out right off the bat!)
  • Learning coping skills. Many of the sessions might be focused on developing coping strategies, such as techniques based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which teaches us to uncover any cognitive distortions they might have around alcohol or other issues and reframe them in more productive ways. The idea behind CBT is that certain thoughts (for example, “I need alcohol to have fun”) lead to emotions (feeling left out or awkward without a drink at a party), which then lead to behaviors (drinking). When we recognize that the original thought is a distortion (in this case, “fortune-telling,” or assuming something is true about the future without concrete evidence), the emotion tends to fade, opening the way for new behaviors.
  • Relapse prevention. One of the major goals of IOP is usually relapse prevention. In an effort to reduce the chances of going back to old behaviors, clients are encouraged to learn to spot triggering situations and make plans for them ahead of time. For example, if after-work happy hours are a trigger, having an “exit plan” or sharing concerns with a close friend who can be on call could be helpful. 



    In the end, though, preventing relapse is all about learning to see alcohol differently. After all, if drinking no longer seems like something that’s even worth doing, we are less likely to fall back into the trap.
Pros of Intensive Outpatient (IOP) Rehab

Pros of Outpatient Rehab

IOP has some definite advantages, especially when compared to more demanding forms of rehab:

  • Outpatient rehab is more flexible and accessible. IOP allows participants to maintain their daily routines, which can be a dealbreaker for many, especially those with families or jobs that don’t allow for an extended leave of absence. Balancing treatment with work, school, or family responsibilities is a lot easier than it is with inpatient treatment. Plus, nothing beats being able to come home and sleep in your own bed at the end of a long day!
  • Studies show that IOP works. According to a review article titled “Substance Abuse Intensive Outpatient Programs: Assessing the Evidence,” many studies have found outpatient rehab to be just as effective as its more intense counterparts. As the authors report, “Taken together, randomized trials and quasi-experimental studies consistently reported equivalent reductions in problem severity and increases in days abstinent at follow-up for participants who received intensive outpatient or day treatment services compared with those in inpatient or residential care.”
  • IOP tends to be more affordable. Financial advantages of outpatient rehab over inpatient options are another plus. They are generally more affordable and often covered by health insurance policies.
  • We can still have access to our support team. IOP allows us to stay connected with our support network, such as families and friends. We’re living at home, so as far as access to our home-based support network, it’s business as usual.
  • It’s a bit more private, especially if we want to stay under the radar. First things first: there’s absolutely no shame in seeking treatment of any sort. That said, it can be easier said than done, and many of us don’t want to reveal the details to everyone in our lives. IOP is easier to integrate into our lives “discreetly” — for example, if we

Outpatient Rehab Drawbacks

At the same time, IOP does have its potential drawbacks. Here are the main ones: 

  • It requires self-motivation and commitment. Staying motivated might be a bit harder. Going to treatment can feel like having an extra part-time (or even full-time) job, so if we already have one on top of that, things can get hectic. 
  • We have to balance our priorities, and time management can get tricky. Living at home is great, but it also means we still have all of our usual responsibilities. Including IOP in our schedule can call for some intricate reshuffling of priorities and delegation of tasks. We can’t be in two places at once, as much as we might like to be!
  • Avoiding relapse triggers could be a challenge. Once again, being at home base is great, but it also means that we are faced with the same environment — and the same triggers — that we had to face before. The brain loves patterns, and facing the same “people, places, and things” (to borrow a 12-step term) can land us in rough waters if we’re not careful.

Is Outpatient Rehab Right for You?

Here are some things to keep in mind when deciding if IOP is right for you or if an alternative might be a better fit:

  • Is it intensive enough? Be honest with yourself (and your care team) about the level of care you need. Sometimes, more intensive treatment is needed, especially if you’ve gone through withdrawal before and know that you might be at risk of more serious symptoms.
  • Is it too intense? On the other hand, if IOP seems too intense for your situation, that’s okay, too! Perhaps you’re at the stage of your alcohol journey when you’re trying out a sober-curious lifestyle, or maybe you just need help staying on track. In that case, consider an app such as Reframe to be your sidekick! 
  • Is it comprehensive enough? Another thing to consider is if a particular IOP program covers everything that you are seeking help for. For example, are you struggling with multiple substances? Or, perhaps, you’re also dealing with an eating disorder or depression? If so, make sure that the program you choose includes a dual-diagnosis track that will be able to address all of your needs. Dealing with multiple challenges at once can be a tricky puzzle to solve, but it’s completely doable!

Tips for the Journey 

Finally, here are some words of wisdom from others who have been where you are and found hope.

  • Give yourself a break. Falling into the alcohol trap is never your fault — alcohol’s addictive, and many have faced the same troubles. In the words of mindfulness expert Thich Nhat Hanh, “Sometimes we say, ‘I didn’t want to do it, but it’s stronger than me, it pushed me.’ So that is a seed, a habit energy, that may have come from many generations in the past. We can smile at our shortcomings, at our habit energy. With awareness, we have a choice; we can act another way. We can end the cycle of suffering right now.”
  • Count your wins. Once you’re on the journey toward changing your relationship with alcohol, there’s no such thing as going back to “square one.” So even if you have a slip-up, you’re always moving forward, simply because you have embarked on this new chapter of your life and are in the process of change. As much as we’d like to avoid them, of course, every detour teaches us something valuable. As Rian Mileti writes in The Decision To Have World Peace, “Life is the slow change from who we used to be into who we are now.”
  • Have hope. As many who have faced the same challenges will tell you, it can be done! And as Benjamin Alire Sáenz writes in Last Night I Sang to the Monster, “If you can quit for a day, you can quit for a lifetime.”
  • Stay curious. In the words of Gabor Maté, author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, “Compassionate curiosity directed toward the self leads to the truth of things.” Exploring life beyond alcohol is an adventure. Embrace the unknown and remember all the benefits that are waiting for you!

A New Chapter

In the end, whichever path you choose — and whether IOP or another form of treatment ends up being a part of your story — congratulations on being on this path. You are writing a new chapter in your own story, and even if it’s a challenging one, keep going. It’s most certainly worth the effort!

Alcohol can sneak up on us. What starts as an innocent glass of wine with friends over tapas on Saturday night turns into an additional mimosa or two on Saturday morning (hey, it’s the weekend, right?), and then a few more beers while watching reruns of Law and Order with your roommates on Thursdays, and so on. Before you know it, it’s easy to find yourself drinking multiple days a week, and maybe every night.

It’s notoriously difficult to spot just when the problem starts, but that’s beside the point. We all have our individual “triggers,” but once alcohol has enough of a hold of us, the main trigger for drinking is really our last drink. It’s a vicious cycle: no matter why we originally turned to booze, our desire for the next drink is now fueled by the aftereffects of the previous one.

So what do you do? Do you have to go to a detox? Alcoholics Anonymous meetings for the rest of your life? Rehab? Eek! It all sounds overwhelming. Then someone suggests outpatient rehab as a more “user-friendly” option. But what is outpatient rehab? And is it really worth it? Let’s explore outpatient alcohol treatment in more detail to help you decide.

Why Go Away for Treatment?

There are a few reasons when going to a specialized facility for treatment makes sense.

  • Getting medical care. If we’ve been drinking for a long time, suddenly stopping can bring on unpleasant withdrawal symptoms caused by a shift in neurotransmitters (primarily GABA and glutamate) in our brain. While these symptoms can simply be uncomfortable for many people, they can be medically dangerous, especially if we’re talking about seizures or delirium tremens (DTs).
  • Disrupting our routine. While leaving home for a month (or even a week) can be difficult, it’s often exactly what we need to make a clean break with our habits. Getting out of our usual surroundings gives the brain much-needed space to form new patterns and associations.
  • Getting on the fast track to recovery. The information and resources we get in a treatment program can often set us up for long-term success. We usually have access to a care team that includes medical professionals, therapists, and sometimes nutritionists. Immersing ourselves in recovery-related discussions, workshops, and one-on-one sessions is certainly a major time commitment, but in the long run it’s often time well spent.

How Does “Rehab” Work?

As physical therapist Joerg Teichmann writes, “In rehabilitation there is no elevator. You have to take every step, meaning one step at a time.” And while this might be true for many types of recovery, including treatment for alcohol misuse, those “steps” can look and feel quite different depending on the option we choose. 

Treatment facilities — or “rehab” centers, as they’re often called — come in all shapes and sizes. Let’s take a look at what’s out there.

  • Inpatient (and detox). This type of facility is the most intense, and it’s appropriate for the most severe cases of alcohol use disorder (AUD). (To learn more about the difference between AUD, which is characterized by a physical dependence on alcohol, and alcohol misuse, check out our blog Alcohol Misuse vs. Dependence.)



    Inpatient treatment usually involves a daily schedule of therapeutic activities and support groups to keep us engaged and focused on recovery. There’s round-the-clock medical care available for those who need it, especially if we’re dealing with withdrawal.
  • Partial hospitalization. Partial hospitalization, or “partial” as it’s sometimes called, is the next level down. It usually takes place in a hospital setting and provides similar services as inpatient hospitalization with one key difference: participants live at home and travel to the program daily, usually staying for the full 8-hour period.
  • Outpatient (or “Intensive Outpatient”). Finally, there’s “intensive outpatient” treatment, or IOP. While it’s a significantly lower time commitment per week, it can last for multiple weeks, or even months. IOP is often housed at the same facilities that provide inpatient treatment but could have a separate location. Either way, participants are usually required to travel there for a few hours at a time but have the rest of their days to themselves to go on with their normal routines.

What Is Outpatient Alcohol Treatment All About?

For those who don’t need 24-hour supervision, IOP programs can be great alternatives. Their main goals? Setting up an effective psychological and social support system, helping prevent relapse, and teaching clients coping strategies. The idea is to put us back in the driver's seat of our own recovery and leave us feeling like we have the tools to keep going and steer ourselves back on course if things get rough.

Now, let’s take a closer look at what goes on inside on a day-to-day basis.

  • Logistics: the typical day. Unlike Partial Hospitalization, IOP programs usually don’t meet every day. We might be looking at three or four days a week, usually for about three or four hours at a time. Sessions are typically held either in the morning (for example 9 until noon) or evening (5 until 8). 



    The time block is broken up into individual sessions, which focus on different aspects of recovery, with breaks in between (we’ll touch on the details of what might be covered below). At least one is usually a “process” session for clients to talk about any general issues going on, and to assess their overall progress. 
  • Addressing withdrawal. While withdrawal sometimes requires medical supervision to get through safely, that’s not always the case. If our symptoms are mild — no seizures or delirium tremens — we might be able to handle them on an outpatient basis, with access to medical professionals, or the option to move up to a higher level of care if we need to.
  • Therapeutic activities. Some sessions might be centered on therapeutic activities, such as art therapy, journaling, or meditation. Alcohol misuse recovery can feel like a daunting process, and tackling it is a highly personalized matter. What works for some folks might not work for others, so it’s good to give different types of therapeutic approaches a fair try, even if it seems a bit cheesy at first glance. (We know, coloring emotion wheels is not for everyone, but let’s not rule it out right off the bat!)
  • Learning coping skills. Many of the sessions might be focused on developing coping strategies, such as techniques based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which teaches us to uncover any cognitive distortions they might have around alcohol or other issues and reframe them in more productive ways. The idea behind CBT is that certain thoughts (for example, “I need alcohol to have fun”) lead to emotions (feeling left out or awkward without a drink at a party), which then lead to behaviors (drinking). When we recognize that the original thought is a distortion (in this case, “fortune-telling,” or assuming something is true about the future without concrete evidence), the emotion tends to fade, opening the way for new behaviors.
  • Relapse prevention. One of the major goals of IOP is usually relapse prevention. In an effort to reduce the chances of going back to old behaviors, clients are encouraged to learn to spot triggering situations and make plans for them ahead of time. For example, if after-work happy hours are a trigger, having an “exit plan” or sharing concerns with a close friend who can be on call could be helpful. 



    In the end, though, preventing relapse is all about learning to see alcohol differently. After all, if drinking no longer seems like something that’s even worth doing, we are less likely to fall back into the trap.
Pros of Intensive Outpatient (IOP) Rehab

Pros of Outpatient Rehab

IOP has some definite advantages, especially when compared to more demanding forms of rehab:

  • Outpatient rehab is more flexible and accessible. IOP allows participants to maintain their daily routines, which can be a dealbreaker for many, especially those with families or jobs that don’t allow for an extended leave of absence. Balancing treatment with work, school, or family responsibilities is a lot easier than it is with inpatient treatment. Plus, nothing beats being able to come home and sleep in your own bed at the end of a long day!
  • Studies show that IOP works. According to a review article titled “Substance Abuse Intensive Outpatient Programs: Assessing the Evidence,” many studies have found outpatient rehab to be just as effective as its more intense counterparts. As the authors report, “Taken together, randomized trials and quasi-experimental studies consistently reported equivalent reductions in problem severity and increases in days abstinent at follow-up for participants who received intensive outpatient or day treatment services compared with those in inpatient or residential care.”
  • IOP tends to be more affordable. Financial advantages of outpatient rehab over inpatient options are another plus. They are generally more affordable and often covered by health insurance policies.
  • We can still have access to our support team. IOP allows us to stay connected with our support network, such as families and friends. We’re living at home, so as far as access to our home-based support network, it’s business as usual.
  • It’s a bit more private, especially if we want to stay under the radar. First things first: there’s absolutely no shame in seeking treatment of any sort. That said, it can be easier said than done, and many of us don’t want to reveal the details to everyone in our lives. IOP is easier to integrate into our lives “discreetly” — for example, if we

Outpatient Rehab Drawbacks

At the same time, IOP does have its potential drawbacks. Here are the main ones: 

  • It requires self-motivation and commitment. Staying motivated might be a bit harder. Going to treatment can feel like having an extra part-time (or even full-time) job, so if we already have one on top of that, things can get hectic. 
  • We have to balance our priorities, and time management can get tricky. Living at home is great, but it also means we still have all of our usual responsibilities. Including IOP in our schedule can call for some intricate reshuffling of priorities and delegation of tasks. We can’t be in two places at once, as much as we might like to be!
  • Avoiding relapse triggers could be a challenge. Once again, being at home base is great, but it also means that we are faced with the same environment — and the same triggers — that we had to face before. The brain loves patterns, and facing the same “people, places, and things” (to borrow a 12-step term) can land us in rough waters if we’re not careful.

Is Outpatient Rehab Right for You?

Here are some things to keep in mind when deciding if IOP is right for you or if an alternative might be a better fit:

  • Is it intensive enough? Be honest with yourself (and your care team) about the level of care you need. Sometimes, more intensive treatment is needed, especially if you’ve gone through withdrawal before and know that you might be at risk of more serious symptoms.
  • Is it too intense? On the other hand, if IOP seems too intense for your situation, that’s okay, too! Perhaps you’re at the stage of your alcohol journey when you’re trying out a sober-curious lifestyle, or maybe you just need help staying on track. In that case, consider an app such as Reframe to be your sidekick! 
  • Is it comprehensive enough? Another thing to consider is if a particular IOP program covers everything that you are seeking help for. For example, are you struggling with multiple substances? Or, perhaps, you’re also dealing with an eating disorder or depression? If so, make sure that the program you choose includes a dual-diagnosis track that will be able to address all of your needs. Dealing with multiple challenges at once can be a tricky puzzle to solve, but it’s completely doable!

Tips for the Journey 

Finally, here are some words of wisdom from others who have been where you are and found hope.

  • Give yourself a break. Falling into the alcohol trap is never your fault — alcohol’s addictive, and many have faced the same troubles. In the words of mindfulness expert Thich Nhat Hanh, “Sometimes we say, ‘I didn’t want to do it, but it’s stronger than me, it pushed me.’ So that is a seed, a habit energy, that may have come from many generations in the past. We can smile at our shortcomings, at our habit energy. With awareness, we have a choice; we can act another way. We can end the cycle of suffering right now.”
  • Count your wins. Once you’re on the journey toward changing your relationship with alcohol, there’s no such thing as going back to “square one.” So even if you have a slip-up, you’re always moving forward, simply because you have embarked on this new chapter of your life and are in the process of change. As much as we’d like to avoid them, of course, every detour teaches us something valuable. As Rian Mileti writes in The Decision To Have World Peace, “Life is the slow change from who we used to be into who we are now.”
  • Have hope. As many who have faced the same challenges will tell you, it can be done! And as Benjamin Alire Sáenz writes in Last Night I Sang to the Monster, “If you can quit for a day, you can quit for a lifetime.”
  • Stay curious. In the words of Gabor Maté, author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, “Compassionate curiosity directed toward the self leads to the truth of things.” Exploring life beyond alcohol is an adventure. Embrace the unknown and remember all the benefits that are waiting for you!

A New Chapter

In the end, whichever path you choose — and whether IOP or another form of treatment ends up being a part of your story — congratulations on being on this path. You are writing a new chapter in your own story, and even if it’s a challenging one, keep going. It’s most certainly worth the effort!

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Drinking Habits
Why Did Prohibition of Alcohol Fail?
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Curious about why Prohibition happened and why it ended up as a failure? Read our latest blog to find out!

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The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

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Why Did the 1920s Prohibition on Alcohol Fail?

Imagine a country where a drink at the bar could land you in jail! This is precisely what happened in America during the Prohibition Era. Beginning in 1919, the Temperance Movement got what its members  wanted — a federal ban on alcohol— only to see Prohibition fail in 1933.

Why did Prohibition fail? There are a few reasons, but in short, it’s because telling people what to do when it comes to their personal habits doesn’t always work out! The 1920s Prohibition experiment is a prime example. Instead of the sought-after temperance, the results were actually quite the opposite: organized crime got more “organized,” the economy suffered, and public health ultimately took a hit.

Setting the Scene: When Did Prohibition Take Place? 

Whether you know it as the Roaring Twenties or the Jazz Age, America in the ‘20s was abuzz with a unique postwar energy. Even the term itself — “the Age of Prohibition” — transports us to the glittery fashion of fringed dresses, chic bob haircuts, dapper hats, fast cars, and whispered passwords to enter the alcohol-infused world of the speakeasy.

The Prohibition was a brief attempt by the government to ban the sale of alcohol. In spite of the government’s intention to “purify” society of “Demon Rum,” however, the effect was quite the opposite: crime rates skyrocketed, illegal underground saloons replaced more legitimate establishments, and anyone who wanted a drink could still find a way to get one.

The ban certainly didn’t dampen the era’s spunky, rebellious spirit. Women pushed social boundaries for greater independence and the right to express themselves. It was also the time of the Teapot Dome scandal that exposed government corruption and involved “ornery oil tycoons, poker-playing politicians, illegal liquor sales, a murder-suicide, a womanizing president, and a bagful of bribery cash delivered on the sly.”

But why did Prohibition happen in the first place? And why did this grand experiment in public morality flop? Let’s take a brief look at the history of the Prohibition movement.

Why Did Prohibition Happen?

When did Prohibition start?  Prohibition was the outcome of the Temperance movements and the anti-alcohol sentiment that was brewing (pardon the pun) since our country’s earliest days. However, it wasn’t until the late 1800s that the movement began gaining enough momentum to eventually achieve its goals.

  • The Temperance movement picks up speed. In the 19th and early 20th century, activists denounced booze left and right, mostly on religious grounds. After 1900, the movement gained traction in the hands of the Protestant Anti-Saloon League. The “wet” opposition (made up of Catholics and German Lutherans) held their own until World War I, when it became necessary to prioritize use of grains to feed the nation.
  • The 18th Amendment passes. The U.S. Senate proposed the 18th Amendment on December 18, 1917. After getting the go-ahead from 36 individual state governments, it was officially established on January 16, 1919. A year later, the whole country went dry.
  • The Volstead Act provides the legal framework of Prohibition. In spite of President Woodrow Wilson’s opposition, Congress passed the Volstead Act on October 28, 1919. Known as the National Prohibition Act, the new law prohibited the sale of alcohol, defined “intoxicating liquors,” and outlined the penalties that would be imposed on anyone who disobeyed the new law.
  • Booze goes underground. The new laws didn’t mean that everyone stopped drinking on cue — far from it! Instead, a black market for alcohol arose, with bootleggers providing illegal liquor and seedy saloons selling it to crowds of persevering partygoers. At the same time, there was rising concern about the effects of booze on society (which seemed to be getting worse instead of better). Headlines such as “Poisons That Lurk in the Bootleg Booze” published by Popular Science Monthly in September 1925) began cropping up, and with good reason. The lack of regulation around alcohol also meant the safety and quality of what was being consumed jeopardized,  often leading to dire health effects.

Prohibition lasted 13 years — from 1920 until 1933, when it was officially repealed by the 21st Amendment. (Fun fact: This is the only time in American history when a whole new Amendment was passed to repeal a previous one!)

Reasons for the Failure of the U.S. Prohibition of Alcohol

Why Did Prohibition Fail?

In hindsight it’s clear the project was doomed from the start, but let’s explore the more nuanced reasons in greater detail. 

1. Social, Psychological, and Health Reasons

Rather than dismantling the liquor industry, Prohibition sent it underground — with dire results. As a current Popular Science article points out in discussing their own fear-mongering headlines from the ‘20s, it was the carelessness of bootleggers that led to the deaths of thousands who drank their tainted booze.

The rise of speakeasies and bootlegging also paved the way for the heyday of the mafia, “organizing” what became known as organized crime operating under the iron fists of characters like Chicago’s infamous gangster Al Capone.

2. Economic Reasons

The economic consequences of closed breweries, distilleries, and bars were substantial. In his PBS program on Prohibition, Ken Burns documents the unintended economic consequences. The closings meant the loss of thousands of jobs, for everyone from brewers to waiters, barrel makers, and truck drivers. Luckily, some found ways to convert their equipment into devices for making malt sugar out of barley, as well as soft drinks.

Prohibition also took its toll on the nation’s economy through lost liquor taxes. According to Burns’s documentary, a whopping $11 billion was lost in tax revenue as the result of a policy that cost a staggering $300 million to enforce!

3. Legal and Political Reasons 

Speaking of enforcing Prohibition laws, it turned out to be much harder than the government anticipated. And there were loopholes galore: pharmacists were allowed to sell alcohol for medicinal purposes, and many ingredients that people could use to make their own “bathtub gin” were freely available for sale.

The End of Prohibition 

The final “nail in the coffin” of Prohibition? ​​The Great Depression dramatically shifted priorities to the nation’s economic crisis, paving the way for the 21st Amendment.

The Next Chapter in U.S. Alcohol History

But while the 21st Amendment officially repealed the 18th and made the sale of alcohol legal again, alcohol wasn’t necessarily welcomed with open arms everywhere in the country.

Just as implementing the law across the country took a few years , it took some time for the laws to fade away. Two states — North and South Carolina — rejected the 21st Amendment, while another eight didn’t vote at all.

Mississippi, on the other hand, stands out from the rest as the only state that kept a version of Prohibition going until 1966!

Prohibition, Public Health, and Recovery 

Does everyone agree that Prohibition “failed” completely? Not exactly. Two papers that look at this period from a public health perspective arrive at different conclusions.

A paper in the journal Addiction titled “What Are the Policy Lessons of National Alcohol Prohibition in the United States, 1920-1933?” suggests that the Prohibition experience does not mean that prohibiting alcohol is necessarily doomed to failure. Rather, partial prohibitions can produce substantial public health benefits at an acceptable social cost.

However, another paper from the American Journal of Public Health highlights the fact that Prohibition ignored the key element of reducing how much we drink, both then and now: individual motivation. Titled “Did Prohibition Really Work? Alcohol Prohibition as a Public Health Innovation,” the paper posits that where Prohibition “pushers” went wrong was in seeing drinking as a social rather than individual issue. 

Yes, there’s been plenty of talk about the “evils” of excessive drinking in American society and plenty of teetotalers willing to lead by example. However, most people didn’t think they were the ones who were drinking too much and felt like the government was trying to control something that wasn’t its business. The result? Off to the saloon we go!

Advice for Cutting Back or Quitting

As we can see, when it comes to changing drinking patterns, Prohibition-style is not the way to go. The key is that motivation has to come from within. Here are some examples of how we can become more self-aware about our drinking patterns.

  • Be mindful of your drinking patterns. Start by becoming a “scientist” of your own drinking patterns. When do you tend to drink more than you’d like? Is it at social events, happy hour at work, or watching sitcom reruns with your partner in the evening? Don’t judge — this is simply about tracking your patterns to become aware of your habits. 
  • Find your “why.” As we can see from the Prohibition experience, the “why” can’t be “because the government told us so.” It has to come from within! Find yours and get excited about it. Maybe you want to develop more authentic connections. Maybe you want to get your liver, heart, brain, and other parts of your body in tip-top shape. Maybe you want to lose weight, save money, or enjoy better sleep every night. Whatever it is, own it!
  • Set specific goals. Decide how much you will drink ahead of time and try to stick to those goals. Tell an accountability buddy or try Reframe: we’ll help you log your drinks and track your habits with friendly reminders.
  • Reach out to your support team. Having a team of friends, family members, and others on the same path can make all the difference. Try the Reframe Forum for 24/7 support!
  • Find other ways to have fun. Many things folks were doing back in the Prohibition Era (think dancing and socializing) are actually great ways to promote the release of dopamine and serotonin, our “feel-good” neurochemicals, naturally — no booze required!

Summing Up

As Abraham Lincoln said in response to Illinois' statewide prohibition of alcohol in the 1840s, “Prohibition goes beyond the bounds of reason in that it attempts to control a man's appetite by legislation and makes a crime out of things that are not crimes ... A prohibition law strikes a blow at the very principles upon which our government was founded.”

Let’s look at our own alcohol journeys as choices — not restrictions or personal “prohibitions.” We may end up having as much fun as those flappers in the saloons — just booze-free!

Why Did the 1920s Prohibition on Alcohol Fail?

Imagine a country where a drink at the bar could land you in jail! This is precisely what happened in America during the Prohibition Era. Beginning in 1919, the Temperance Movement got what its members  wanted — a federal ban on alcohol— only to see Prohibition fail in 1933.

Why did Prohibition fail? There are a few reasons, but in short, it’s because telling people what to do when it comes to their personal habits doesn’t always work out! The 1920s Prohibition experiment is a prime example. Instead of the sought-after temperance, the results were actually quite the opposite: organized crime got more “organized,” the economy suffered, and public health ultimately took a hit.

Setting the Scene: When Did Prohibition Take Place? 

Whether you know it as the Roaring Twenties or the Jazz Age, America in the ‘20s was abuzz with a unique postwar energy. Even the term itself — “the Age of Prohibition” — transports us to the glittery fashion of fringed dresses, chic bob haircuts, dapper hats, fast cars, and whispered passwords to enter the alcohol-infused world of the speakeasy.

The Prohibition was a brief attempt by the government to ban the sale of alcohol. In spite of the government’s intention to “purify” society of “Demon Rum,” however, the effect was quite the opposite: crime rates skyrocketed, illegal underground saloons replaced more legitimate establishments, and anyone who wanted a drink could still find a way to get one.

The ban certainly didn’t dampen the era’s spunky, rebellious spirit. Women pushed social boundaries for greater independence and the right to express themselves. It was also the time of the Teapot Dome scandal that exposed government corruption and involved “ornery oil tycoons, poker-playing politicians, illegal liquor sales, a murder-suicide, a womanizing president, and a bagful of bribery cash delivered on the sly.”

But why did Prohibition happen in the first place? And why did this grand experiment in public morality flop? Let’s take a brief look at the history of the Prohibition movement.

Why Did Prohibition Happen?

When did Prohibition start?  Prohibition was the outcome of the Temperance movements and the anti-alcohol sentiment that was brewing (pardon the pun) since our country’s earliest days. However, it wasn’t until the late 1800s that the movement began gaining enough momentum to eventually achieve its goals.

  • The Temperance movement picks up speed. In the 19th and early 20th century, activists denounced booze left and right, mostly on religious grounds. After 1900, the movement gained traction in the hands of the Protestant Anti-Saloon League. The “wet” opposition (made up of Catholics and German Lutherans) held their own until World War I, when it became necessary to prioritize use of grains to feed the nation.
  • The 18th Amendment passes. The U.S. Senate proposed the 18th Amendment on December 18, 1917. After getting the go-ahead from 36 individual state governments, it was officially established on January 16, 1919. A year later, the whole country went dry.
  • The Volstead Act provides the legal framework of Prohibition. In spite of President Woodrow Wilson’s opposition, Congress passed the Volstead Act on October 28, 1919. Known as the National Prohibition Act, the new law prohibited the sale of alcohol, defined “intoxicating liquors,” and outlined the penalties that would be imposed on anyone who disobeyed the new law.
  • Booze goes underground. The new laws didn’t mean that everyone stopped drinking on cue — far from it! Instead, a black market for alcohol arose, with bootleggers providing illegal liquor and seedy saloons selling it to crowds of persevering partygoers. At the same time, there was rising concern about the effects of booze on society (which seemed to be getting worse instead of better). Headlines such as “Poisons That Lurk in the Bootleg Booze” published by Popular Science Monthly in September 1925) began cropping up, and with good reason. The lack of regulation around alcohol also meant the safety and quality of what was being consumed jeopardized,  often leading to dire health effects.

Prohibition lasted 13 years — from 1920 until 1933, when it was officially repealed by the 21st Amendment. (Fun fact: This is the only time in American history when a whole new Amendment was passed to repeal a previous one!)

Reasons for the Failure of the U.S. Prohibition of Alcohol

Why Did Prohibition Fail?

In hindsight it’s clear the project was doomed from the start, but let’s explore the more nuanced reasons in greater detail. 

1. Social, Psychological, and Health Reasons

Rather than dismantling the liquor industry, Prohibition sent it underground — with dire results. As a current Popular Science article points out in discussing their own fear-mongering headlines from the ‘20s, it was the carelessness of bootleggers that led to the deaths of thousands who drank their tainted booze.

The rise of speakeasies and bootlegging also paved the way for the heyday of the mafia, “organizing” what became known as organized crime operating under the iron fists of characters like Chicago’s infamous gangster Al Capone.

2. Economic Reasons

The economic consequences of closed breweries, distilleries, and bars were substantial. In his PBS program on Prohibition, Ken Burns documents the unintended economic consequences. The closings meant the loss of thousands of jobs, for everyone from brewers to waiters, barrel makers, and truck drivers. Luckily, some found ways to convert their equipment into devices for making malt sugar out of barley, as well as soft drinks.

Prohibition also took its toll on the nation’s economy through lost liquor taxes. According to Burns’s documentary, a whopping $11 billion was lost in tax revenue as the result of a policy that cost a staggering $300 million to enforce!

3. Legal and Political Reasons 

Speaking of enforcing Prohibition laws, it turned out to be much harder than the government anticipated. And there were loopholes galore: pharmacists were allowed to sell alcohol for medicinal purposes, and many ingredients that people could use to make their own “bathtub gin” were freely available for sale.

The End of Prohibition 

The final “nail in the coffin” of Prohibition? ​​The Great Depression dramatically shifted priorities to the nation’s economic crisis, paving the way for the 21st Amendment.

The Next Chapter in U.S. Alcohol History

But while the 21st Amendment officially repealed the 18th and made the sale of alcohol legal again, alcohol wasn’t necessarily welcomed with open arms everywhere in the country.

Just as implementing the law across the country took a few years , it took some time for the laws to fade away. Two states — North and South Carolina — rejected the 21st Amendment, while another eight didn’t vote at all.

Mississippi, on the other hand, stands out from the rest as the only state that kept a version of Prohibition going until 1966!

Prohibition, Public Health, and Recovery 

Does everyone agree that Prohibition “failed” completely? Not exactly. Two papers that look at this period from a public health perspective arrive at different conclusions.

A paper in the journal Addiction titled “What Are the Policy Lessons of National Alcohol Prohibition in the United States, 1920-1933?” suggests that the Prohibition experience does not mean that prohibiting alcohol is necessarily doomed to failure. Rather, partial prohibitions can produce substantial public health benefits at an acceptable social cost.

However, another paper from the American Journal of Public Health highlights the fact that Prohibition ignored the key element of reducing how much we drink, both then and now: individual motivation. Titled “Did Prohibition Really Work? Alcohol Prohibition as a Public Health Innovation,” the paper posits that where Prohibition “pushers” went wrong was in seeing drinking as a social rather than individual issue. 

Yes, there’s been plenty of talk about the “evils” of excessive drinking in American society and plenty of teetotalers willing to lead by example. However, most people didn’t think they were the ones who were drinking too much and felt like the government was trying to control something that wasn’t its business. The result? Off to the saloon we go!

Advice for Cutting Back or Quitting

As we can see, when it comes to changing drinking patterns, Prohibition-style is not the way to go. The key is that motivation has to come from within. Here are some examples of how we can become more self-aware about our drinking patterns.

  • Be mindful of your drinking patterns. Start by becoming a “scientist” of your own drinking patterns. When do you tend to drink more than you’d like? Is it at social events, happy hour at work, or watching sitcom reruns with your partner in the evening? Don’t judge — this is simply about tracking your patterns to become aware of your habits. 
  • Find your “why.” As we can see from the Prohibition experience, the “why” can’t be “because the government told us so.” It has to come from within! Find yours and get excited about it. Maybe you want to develop more authentic connections. Maybe you want to get your liver, heart, brain, and other parts of your body in tip-top shape. Maybe you want to lose weight, save money, or enjoy better sleep every night. Whatever it is, own it!
  • Set specific goals. Decide how much you will drink ahead of time and try to stick to those goals. Tell an accountability buddy or try Reframe: we’ll help you log your drinks and track your habits with friendly reminders.
  • Reach out to your support team. Having a team of friends, family members, and others on the same path can make all the difference. Try the Reframe Forum for 24/7 support!
  • Find other ways to have fun. Many things folks were doing back in the Prohibition Era (think dancing and socializing) are actually great ways to promote the release of dopamine and serotonin, our “feel-good” neurochemicals, naturally — no booze required!

Summing Up

As Abraham Lincoln said in response to Illinois' statewide prohibition of alcohol in the 1840s, “Prohibition goes beyond the bounds of reason in that it attempts to control a man's appetite by legislation and makes a crime out of things that are not crimes ... A prohibition law strikes a blow at the very principles upon which our government was founded.”

Let’s look at our own alcohol journeys as choices — not restrictions or personal “prohibitions.” We may end up having as much fun as those flappers in the saloons — just booze-free!

Drinking Habits
2024-10-26 9:00
Drinking Habits
Is a Jagerbomb More Dangerous Than a Gin and Tonic?
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Curious how Jägerbombs and gin and tonics measure up? Find out the truth about side effects, nutritional content, and more in our latest blog!

17 min read

Ready To Recast Your Relationship With Gin and Tonics and Jägerbombs? Reframe Can Help!

Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!

The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).

The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!

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For better or worse, both Jägerbombs and gin and tonics are popular choices on a night out. Judging by the name — JägerBOMB— you might suspect that the first is more dangerous. The second, on the other hand, sounds vaguely like a health drink. 

But what is the reality behind each one? Is a Jägerbomb more dangerous than a gin and tonic? Before you get caught up worrying about “how many Jägerbombs will kill you,” let’s take a deep breath and look at the facts. While Jägerbombs are, indeed, a bit more dangerous than gin and tonics due to the caffeine content, ultimately it all comes down to how much alcohol we end up consuming.

Jägerbomb vs. Gin and Tonic: Understanding the Contenders

A glass of whiskey filled with ice

Before we take a closer look at the contenders, there’s one key fact to understand about them: both have alcohol — and a lot of it, at that. The CDC recommends an upper limit of two drinks per day for men and one for women and defines excessive drinking as five or more (and four or more) on a single occasion. 

Drinking too much can have a number of short- and long-term consequences on our body and mind:

  • Our judgment takes a hit. Because alcohol temporarily slows down our prefrontal cortex, the decisions we make under the influence — whatever our beverage of choice might be — are usually not the best.
  • Our sleep gets disrupted. Whether we’re throwing back Jägerbombs or sipping on gin and tonics, we’re likely to wake up groggy and miss out on the restorative REM sleep phase.
  • Depression and anxiety get worse. Ever heard of “hangxiety”? The disruption in neurotransmitter levels in our brain leads to bouts of morning-after anxiety and blues.
  • We risk serious health problems over time. Excessive drinking can cause liver and heart problems and even contribute to many types of cancers

There are many other adverse outcomes from drinking alcohol, but for now, let’s take a closer look at the components and effects of Jägerbombs and gin and tonics in particular.

Inside the Jägerbomb

The infamous Jägerbomb has two main ingredients:

  • Jägermeister: an herbal liqueur containing 56 different herbs, fruits, roots, and spices.
  • An energy drink: typically contains large amounts of caffeine and sugar (such as Red Bull).

After exploring each component individually, we’ll see what happens when we mix them.

How Bad is a Jägerbomb? “As Bad as Cocaine”

Why is mixing caffeine and alcohol such a bad idea? There are a few reasons:

  • The "wide-awake drunk" phenomenon. As an upper, caffeine tends to mask the effects of booze, making us feel less drunk than we are. The result? We set ourselves on the fast track to alcohol-related accidents and possible alcohol poisoning (not to mention all those late-night phone calls or impromptu table dances we might later regret). Moreover, despite the rumors that suggest otherwise, the CDC reports that “caffeine has no effect on the metabolism of alcohol by the liver and thus does not reduce breath or blood alcohol concentrations (it does not ‘sober you up’) or reduce impairment due to alcohol consumption.”
  • Increased risk of binge drinking. Studies show that mixing alcohol and caffeine can also contribute to binge drinking. Because we end up feeling less drunk than we actually are, we are more likely to continue way past the point of intoxication. (Part of the effect is also cultural — we’re less likely to sip Jägerbombs “mindfully” and often throw them back one after another). 
  • Heart strain. Studies show that energy drinks are particularly hard on the heart. Alcohol by itself also isn’t all that heart-friendly — it can lead to heart palpitations, arrhythmia, blood pressure fluctuations, and, in severe cases, cardiomyopathy. (For a deeper look, check out our blog:  “Is It Safe To Mix Alcohol and Energy Drinks?”).

According to scientists from Purdue University, all of this put together makes Jägerbombs “as bad for your health as taking cocaine.” The mix not only affects your heart but also your brain. In fact, the mixture can quickly alter our brain neurochemistry, much like cocaine does.  

As for “how many Jägerbombs will kill you”? There’s no exact amount, and they’re not inherently “deadly” in their own right. That said, they do make it more likely that we end up drinking too much — and alcohol poisoning can have a lethal effect.

Inside Gin and Tonic

Now, what about the good old gin and tonic? Is it a safe alternative? Yes and no. 

First, let’s take a deeper look inside at the ingredients and their nutritional content.

  • Gin. This distilled alcoholic drink derives its predominant flavor from juniper berries. A single shot (1.5 ounces) has about 97 calories. Unlike Jägermeister, it’s sugar-free but is slightly higher in ABV (alcohol by volume) — about 40%.
  • Tonic water. Tonic water is a carbonated soft drink made from quinine. While it helps a bit with hydration, it also adds sugar to the drink.

At first glance, it looks like gin and tonic is a healthier choice — and in many ways, it might be. But there’s more to the story.

Gin and Tonic: Not That Innocent Either

While there might be fewer obvious disadvantages when comparing a gin and tonic to a Jägerbomb, that’s true of most drinks when pitted against a liquor-loaded Red Bull. In reality, a gin and tonic isn’t as “pure” as it looks:

  • It looks deceptively “light.” Despite looking like water and having the word “tonic” (rather than “bomb” in the name), a gin and tonic isn’t all that harmless. This drink is very strong and contains more alcohol than a Jägerbomb.
  • “Tonic” sounds deceptively healthy. Even by itself, tonic water isn’t necessarily the “health drink” that it sounds like. Research sheds light on the negative effects of quinine, which has been touted for its supposed health benefits (and even used to treat malaria) for generations. 
  • Tonic water has hidden calories. Not to be confused with sparkling water, tonic water clocks in at about 124 calories per can — more than a Red Bull!
  • Gin shares all the health hazards of alcohol. Just as other alcoholic beverages — especially hard liquors — gin comes with many of the potential health hazards we touched on earlier. While some point to the health benefits of juniper berries as a redeeming factor, the reality is that most of their antioxidant properties are lost in the production process.

As we can see, the “tonic” might be a bit healthier than the “bomb,” but not by much. It certainly comes with its own set of potential hazards.

Jägerbomb vs. Gin and Tonic: The Verdict

In the end, both Jägerbombs and gin and tonics have their dangers. Still, the risks of mixing energy drinks with alcohol are significant enough to earn the first contender the “more dangerous” label. Gin and tonic, on the other hand, “wins” in terms of having fewer immediate dangers.

That said, it’s crucial to keep in mind that both are alcoholic drinks, which automatically puts them in the risky beverage category. Both are based on liquors that are high in ABV (especially gin), and both come with risks to our physical, mental, and emotional health.

Tips To Sip Safely

Tips To Sip Safely

Given the dangers of excessive alcohol consumption in general, it’s wise to err on the side of safety when it comes to booze. Here are some tips for the journey:

  1. Watch your intake. Regardless of what you choose to drink, try to set a limit and stick to it. Be mindful of your intake by using an accountability buddy (or an app such as Reframe!). Alternating each drink with water (or a non-alcoholic option) can also help.
  2. Avoid mixing booze and caffeine. While no alcohol is safe, especially in large amounts, mixing booze and caffeinated drinks adds another level of danger. So while Jägerbombs might be all the rage in some circles, they aren’t the healthiest choice in the long run.
  3. Explore mocktails. If interesting flavors are your thing, why not give mocktails a try? You might discover a new favorite!
  4. Branch out into herbal teas. Intrigued by the herbal mix in Jägermeister? Exploring herbs and their flavors doesn’t have to come with a hangover the next day. Why not dive into the world of herbs in a safer way by exploring the many flavors of teas out there? From calming chamomile to refreshing hibiscus or zesty lemongrass, there’s something for everyone!

Keep these tips in mind and remember — there’s so much more to your night out than what’s in your glass. Focus on soaking in the joy of laughter with friends, authentic connections, and adventures to remember!

Have Fun, but Stay Safe

Our daily choices matter, and when it comes to choosing between a Jägerbomb and a gin and tonic, it’s helpful to look at the science behind each in making our decision. It’s also crucial to keep the bigger picture in mind so that a fun night out doesn’t turn into a dangerous one, regardless of which drink you choose. Instead, focus on nourishing and taking care of your body. We’re cheering you on and are here to support you every step of the way!

For better or worse, both Jägerbombs and gin and tonics are popular choices on a night out. Judging by the name — JägerBOMB— you might suspect that the first is more dangerous. The second, on the other hand, sounds vaguely like a health drink. 

But what is the reality behind each one? Is a Jägerbomb more dangerous than a gin and tonic? Before you get caught up worrying about “how many Jägerbombs will kill you,” let’s take a deep breath and look at the facts. While Jägerbombs are, indeed, a bit more dangerous than gin and tonics due to the caffeine content, ultimately it all comes down to how much alcohol we end up consuming.

Jägerbomb vs. Gin and Tonic: Understanding the Contenders

A glass of whiskey filled with ice

Before we take a closer look at the contenders, there’s one key fact to understand about them: both have alcohol — and a lot of it, at that. The CDC recommends an upper limit of two drinks per day for men and one for women and defines excessive drinking as five or more (and four or more) on a single occasion. 

Drinking too much can have a number of short- and long-term consequences on our body and mind:

  • Our judgment takes a hit. Because alcohol temporarily slows down our prefrontal cortex, the decisions we make under the influence — whatever our beverage of choice might be — are usually not the best.
  • Our sleep gets disrupted. Whether we’re throwing back Jägerbombs or sipping on gin and tonics, we’re likely to wake up groggy and miss out on the restorative REM sleep phase.
  • Depression and anxiety get worse. Ever heard of “hangxiety”? The disruption in neurotransmitter levels in our brain leads to bouts of morning-after anxiety and blues.
  • We risk serious health problems over time. Excessive drinking can cause liver and heart problems and even contribute to many types of cancers

There are many other adverse outcomes from drinking alcohol, but for now, let’s take a closer look at the components and effects of Jägerbombs and gin and tonics in particular.

Inside the Jägerbomb

The infamous Jägerbomb has two main ingredients:

  • Jägermeister: an herbal liqueur containing 56 different herbs, fruits, roots, and spices.
  • An energy drink: typically contains large amounts of caffeine and sugar (such as Red Bull).

After exploring each component individually, we’ll see what happens when we mix them.

How Bad is a Jägerbomb? “As Bad as Cocaine”

Why is mixing caffeine and alcohol such a bad idea? There are a few reasons:

  • The "wide-awake drunk" phenomenon. As an upper, caffeine tends to mask the effects of booze, making us feel less drunk than we are. The result? We set ourselves on the fast track to alcohol-related accidents and possible alcohol poisoning (not to mention all those late-night phone calls or impromptu table dances we might later regret). Moreover, despite the rumors that suggest otherwise, the CDC reports that “caffeine has no effect on the metabolism of alcohol by the liver and thus does not reduce breath or blood alcohol concentrations (it does not ‘sober you up’) or reduce impairment due to alcohol consumption.”
  • Increased risk of binge drinking. Studies show that mixing alcohol and caffeine can also contribute to binge drinking. Because we end up feeling less drunk than we actually are, we are more likely to continue way past the point of intoxication. (Part of the effect is also cultural — we’re less likely to sip Jägerbombs “mindfully” and often throw them back one after another). 
  • Heart strain. Studies show that energy drinks are particularly hard on the heart. Alcohol by itself also isn’t all that heart-friendly — it can lead to heart palpitations, arrhythmia, blood pressure fluctuations, and, in severe cases, cardiomyopathy. (For a deeper look, check out our blog:  “Is It Safe To Mix Alcohol and Energy Drinks?”).

According to scientists from Purdue University, all of this put together makes Jägerbombs “as bad for your health as taking cocaine.” The mix not only affects your heart but also your brain. In fact, the mixture can quickly alter our brain neurochemistry, much like cocaine does.  

As for “how many Jägerbombs will kill you”? There’s no exact amount, and they’re not inherently “deadly” in their own right. That said, they do make it more likely that we end up drinking too much — and alcohol poisoning can have a lethal effect.

Inside Gin and Tonic

Now, what about the good old gin and tonic? Is it a safe alternative? Yes and no. 

First, let’s take a deeper look inside at the ingredients and their nutritional content.

  • Gin. This distilled alcoholic drink derives its predominant flavor from juniper berries. A single shot (1.5 ounces) has about 97 calories. Unlike Jägermeister, it’s sugar-free but is slightly higher in ABV (alcohol by volume) — about 40%.
  • Tonic water. Tonic water is a carbonated soft drink made from quinine. While it helps a bit with hydration, it also adds sugar to the drink.

At first glance, it looks like gin and tonic is a healthier choice — and in many ways, it might be. But there’s more to the story.

Gin and Tonic: Not That Innocent Either

While there might be fewer obvious disadvantages when comparing a gin and tonic to a Jägerbomb, that’s true of most drinks when pitted against a liquor-loaded Red Bull. In reality, a gin and tonic isn’t as “pure” as it looks:

  • It looks deceptively “light.” Despite looking like water and having the word “tonic” (rather than “bomb” in the name), a gin and tonic isn’t all that harmless. This drink is very strong and contains more alcohol than a Jägerbomb.
  • “Tonic” sounds deceptively healthy. Even by itself, tonic water isn’t necessarily the “health drink” that it sounds like. Research sheds light on the negative effects of quinine, which has been touted for its supposed health benefits (and even used to treat malaria) for generations. 
  • Tonic water has hidden calories. Not to be confused with sparkling water, tonic water clocks in at about 124 calories per can — more than a Red Bull!
  • Gin shares all the health hazards of alcohol. Just as other alcoholic beverages — especially hard liquors — gin comes with many of the potential health hazards we touched on earlier. While some point to the health benefits of juniper berries as a redeeming factor, the reality is that most of their antioxidant properties are lost in the production process.

As we can see, the “tonic” might be a bit healthier than the “bomb,” but not by much. It certainly comes with its own set of potential hazards.

Jägerbomb vs. Gin and Tonic: The Verdict

In the end, both Jägerbombs and gin and tonics have their dangers. Still, the risks of mixing energy drinks with alcohol are significant enough to earn the first contender the “more dangerous” label. Gin and tonic, on the other hand, “wins” in terms of having fewer immediate dangers.

That said, it’s crucial to keep in mind that both are alcoholic drinks, which automatically puts them in the risky beverage category. Both are based on liquors that are high in ABV (especially gin), and both come with risks to our physical, mental, and emotional health.

Tips To Sip Safely

Tips To Sip Safely

Given the dangers of excessive alcohol consumption in general, it’s wise to err on the side of safety when it comes to booze. Here are some tips for the journey:

  1. Watch your intake. Regardless of what you choose to drink, try to set a limit and stick to it. Be mindful of your intake by using an accountability buddy (or an app such as Reframe!). Alternating each drink with water (or a non-alcoholic option) can also help.
  2. Avoid mixing booze and caffeine. While no alcohol is safe, especially in large amounts, mixing booze and caffeinated drinks adds another level of danger. So while Jägerbombs might be all the rage in some circles, they aren’t the healthiest choice in the long run.
  3. Explore mocktails. If interesting flavors are your thing, why not give mocktails a try? You might discover a new favorite!
  4. Branch out into herbal teas. Intrigued by the herbal mix in Jägermeister? Exploring herbs and their flavors doesn’t have to come with a hangover the next day. Why not dive into the world of herbs in a safer way by exploring the many flavors of teas out there? From calming chamomile to refreshing hibiscus or zesty lemongrass, there’s something for everyone!

Keep these tips in mind and remember — there’s so much more to your night out than what’s in your glass. Focus on soaking in the joy of laughter with friends, authentic connections, and adventures to remember!

Have Fun, but Stay Safe

Our daily choices matter, and when it comes to choosing between a Jägerbomb and a gin and tonic, it’s helpful to look at the science behind each in making our decision. It’s also crucial to keep the bigger picture in mind so that a fun night out doesn’t turn into a dangerous one, regardless of which drink you choose. Instead, focus on nourishing and taking care of your body. We’re cheering you on and are here to support you every step of the way!

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How Negativity Bias Affects Drinking Habits and Alcohol Dependence
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Challenging negativity bias helps us shift to a more positive and motivated mindset to change our drinking habits. Check out our latest blog to learn how.

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Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!

The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).

The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!

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You’re back from a much-needed vacation, the kind you dream about during long work days. You soaked in amazing views, indulged in great food, and had a blast with your friends. But now, when you think back, all you can remember is that one rough night when you drank too much, tainting the entire trip. Instead of basking in memories of scenic hikes or late-night laughs, your mind seems glued to that one regrettable evening. Sound familiar? It’s known as negativity bias, which is our brain’s pesky tendency to focus more on the bad stuff than the good. 

Overfocusing on the negative can make it easier to seek out unhealthy coping mechanisms and dampen our motivation to make positive change in our life. But when we learn to recognize this pattern, we can manage our thoughts and enjoy a more balanced view of our experiences. Let’s dig into why this happens, so we can shift into a positive mindset and begin making changes that stick. 

What Is Negativity Bias?

A woman leans against a bar, holding a glass of alcohol

Negativity bias is our brain’s natural tendency to focus on negative experiences more than positive ones. We might remember negative experiences more and be more affected by them. There’s actually a biological reason for this. Back in the hunter-gatherer days, when survival was the main focus, recognizing danger was what helped keep us alive. Recalling that terrifying moment of picking the poisonous berry helped us avoid it in the future.

These days, we may not be constantly dodging life-or-death threats, but negativity bias still works behind the scenes to keep us safe. That’s why a small hiccup — like the barista giving us the wrong coffee order — can overshadow an otherwise good morning. This negative focus can be frustrating, but it isn’t all bad and can help us learn and grow. When it comes to the coffee, we’ll most likely double-check next time.

When negativity takes over too often, or we’re lacking healthy coping skills, negativity bias can cloud our perspective and influence our choices in unfavorable ways. Add alcohol (a mind-altering drug) to the equation, and things get even more complicated. Let’s see how.

How Negativity Bias Affects Alcohol Consumption

Negativity bias might cause us to overlook the positive aspects of life, increasing our negative emotions and bringing down our mood. As a result, we might find ourselves reaching for a drink. Negative emotions and alcohol consumption are closely tied, as they can trigger one another.

Alcohol gives us a fleeting moment of escape or distraction — tempting when we’re trying not to get overwhelmed with negative emotions. Drinking slows down messaging in our brain and body. Our heart rate slows, our muscles relax, and our thoughts can become hazy, offering us a temporary sense of calm.

On top of that, alcohol boosts the release of serotonin and dopamine, two “feel-good” hormones that cause our uncomfortable emotions to fade away. But this feeling is short-lived. When alcohol’s depressant effects wear off, its rebound effect kicks into high gear. An unpleasant mood, irritability, and anxiety can make the uncomfortable emotions and experiences we’re already facing even more challenging. 

Negativity bias further amplifies negative experiences, digging us into even deeper holes. Without positive coping mechanisms in place, it can feel like our back is to the wall and the best way to feel better is to drink more. We develop a cycle of alcohol dependence that can be difficult to break. But that’s not the worst part. Let’s see how negativity bias can prevent us from living a healthier, alcohol-free life.

How Negativity Bias Impacts Recovery From Alcohol Addiction

How Negativity Bias Affects Recovery From Alcohol Misuse

Negativity bias can prevent positive change by impacting our ability to initiate and maintain recovery from alcohol misuse. Here’s how. 

  • Fear of failure. When we focus on the negative — “What will go wrong?” “Can I do this?” “What if I fail?” — we doubt ourselves before we even try. This fear of failure is like an invisible wall that can prevent us from taking that uncomfortable first step towards a healthier future.
  • Lack of motivation. Negativity bias can also drain our motivation. We might be making progress, but when we focus only on our setbacks, it’s hard to see that. Lack of motivation not only decreases our chances of starting recovery but also sticking with it. 
  • Self-judgment during setbacks. Setbacks are an opportunity for learning, but when we dwell on everything that went wrong, a setback might feel like a failure. When we feel like we’ve “messed up,” we might continue down that track due to black and white thinking. However, the key to maintaining recovery is learning from our setbacks and getting back on track. 

You might be thinking, “Isn’t negativity bias supposed to protect me?” Well, yes, when we learn to balance it. But since alcohol can change how we think and feel, it can amplify the negatives. When our emotional balance gets thrown off, the benefits of negativity bias can be overshadowed. So, how can we manage this balance so we can set ourselves up for success in developing a healthier relationship with alcohol? 

Navigating Negativity Bias 

We can actually change the way we think, as our brain adapts and learns depending on what we expose it to — a concept known as neuroplasticity. By changing our behaviors, we can shift to a more positive mindset. Let’s explore the three main steps. 

  • Recognize. Take time each day to reflect on how you’re feeling and recognize negative thoughts. Practicing meditation and mindfulness can help us recognize when we might be focusing too much on the negative side of things. 
  • Reframe. For each negative thought or experience, find the silver lining. When we practice this, we train our brain to also recognize the good. 
  • Repeat. Developing a positive mindset takes practice and repetition. Implement gratitude in your daily routine to combat negativity bias. Also, remember to celebrate even the small wins in recovery to remind yourself of how far you’ve come.

There are several other tweaks we can make to our daily life that can help us minimize negativity in our lives:

  • Watch what you consume online. The media is full of negativity, from depressing news to social media posts that make us feel less-than. Be mindful of what you’re looking at and how it makes you feel. Remind yourself that a lot of online content isn’t all it appears to be, and don’t let it affect you to the point of wanting a drink.
  • Limit “doomscrolling.” While it’s important to know what’s going on in the world, it’s also important not to spend excessive amounts of time scrolling through negative or depressing content. Just read the summaries or ask a friend to give you the gist of it.
  • Redirect after setbacks. We can also use negativity bias to our advantage. For example, if we’re trying to quit or cut back on alcohol and we fall back into old patterns, we can see that slipup as an opportunity to do better. The pounding headaches, groggy mornings, and anxiety that often follow drinking can be powerful motivators to make healthier choices the next time.

We might not be able to completely eliminate the negativity bias that’s hardwired into us, but we can reframe our thoughts so we can see things from a different perspective. As Greek philosopher Epictitus said, “it’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”

A Brighter Perspective

While our mindset and willpower alone may not be able to make negative drinking habits go away (thanks to the alcohol’s impact on our brain chemistry), they can play a major role in change. Shifting to a positive mindset can boost our motivation, confidence, and resilience to quit or cut back on alcohol. So, let’s balance negativity bias with gratitude to start making the change we want to see! 

You’re back from a much-needed vacation, the kind you dream about during long work days. You soaked in amazing views, indulged in great food, and had a blast with your friends. But now, when you think back, all you can remember is that one rough night when you drank too much, tainting the entire trip. Instead of basking in memories of scenic hikes or late-night laughs, your mind seems glued to that one regrettable evening. Sound familiar? It’s known as negativity bias, which is our brain’s pesky tendency to focus more on the bad stuff than the good. 

Overfocusing on the negative can make it easier to seek out unhealthy coping mechanisms and dampen our motivation to make positive change in our life. But when we learn to recognize this pattern, we can manage our thoughts and enjoy a more balanced view of our experiences. Let’s dig into why this happens, so we can shift into a positive mindset and begin making changes that stick. 

What Is Negativity Bias?

A woman leans against a bar, holding a glass of alcohol

Negativity bias is our brain’s natural tendency to focus on negative experiences more than positive ones. We might remember negative experiences more and be more affected by them. There’s actually a biological reason for this. Back in the hunter-gatherer days, when survival was the main focus, recognizing danger was what helped keep us alive. Recalling that terrifying moment of picking the poisonous berry helped us avoid it in the future.

These days, we may not be constantly dodging life-or-death threats, but negativity bias still works behind the scenes to keep us safe. That’s why a small hiccup — like the barista giving us the wrong coffee order — can overshadow an otherwise good morning. This negative focus can be frustrating, but it isn’t all bad and can help us learn and grow. When it comes to the coffee, we’ll most likely double-check next time.

When negativity takes over too often, or we’re lacking healthy coping skills, negativity bias can cloud our perspective and influence our choices in unfavorable ways. Add alcohol (a mind-altering drug) to the equation, and things get even more complicated. Let’s see how.

How Negativity Bias Affects Alcohol Consumption

Negativity bias might cause us to overlook the positive aspects of life, increasing our negative emotions and bringing down our mood. As a result, we might find ourselves reaching for a drink. Negative emotions and alcohol consumption are closely tied, as they can trigger one another.

Alcohol gives us a fleeting moment of escape or distraction — tempting when we’re trying not to get overwhelmed with negative emotions. Drinking slows down messaging in our brain and body. Our heart rate slows, our muscles relax, and our thoughts can become hazy, offering us a temporary sense of calm.

On top of that, alcohol boosts the release of serotonin and dopamine, two “feel-good” hormones that cause our uncomfortable emotions to fade away. But this feeling is short-lived. When alcohol’s depressant effects wear off, its rebound effect kicks into high gear. An unpleasant mood, irritability, and anxiety can make the uncomfortable emotions and experiences we’re already facing even more challenging. 

Negativity bias further amplifies negative experiences, digging us into even deeper holes. Without positive coping mechanisms in place, it can feel like our back is to the wall and the best way to feel better is to drink more. We develop a cycle of alcohol dependence that can be difficult to break. But that’s not the worst part. Let’s see how negativity bias can prevent us from living a healthier, alcohol-free life.

How Negativity Bias Impacts Recovery From Alcohol Addiction

How Negativity Bias Affects Recovery From Alcohol Misuse

Negativity bias can prevent positive change by impacting our ability to initiate and maintain recovery from alcohol misuse. Here’s how. 

  • Fear of failure. When we focus on the negative — “What will go wrong?” “Can I do this?” “What if I fail?” — we doubt ourselves before we even try. This fear of failure is like an invisible wall that can prevent us from taking that uncomfortable first step towards a healthier future.
  • Lack of motivation. Negativity bias can also drain our motivation. We might be making progress, but when we focus only on our setbacks, it’s hard to see that. Lack of motivation not only decreases our chances of starting recovery but also sticking with it. 
  • Self-judgment during setbacks. Setbacks are an opportunity for learning, but when we dwell on everything that went wrong, a setback might feel like a failure. When we feel like we’ve “messed up,” we might continue down that track due to black and white thinking. However, the key to maintaining recovery is learning from our setbacks and getting back on track. 

You might be thinking, “Isn’t negativity bias supposed to protect me?” Well, yes, when we learn to balance it. But since alcohol can change how we think and feel, it can amplify the negatives. When our emotional balance gets thrown off, the benefits of negativity bias can be overshadowed. So, how can we manage this balance so we can set ourselves up for success in developing a healthier relationship with alcohol? 

Navigating Negativity Bias 

We can actually change the way we think, as our brain adapts and learns depending on what we expose it to — a concept known as neuroplasticity. By changing our behaviors, we can shift to a more positive mindset. Let’s explore the three main steps. 

  • Recognize. Take time each day to reflect on how you’re feeling and recognize negative thoughts. Practicing meditation and mindfulness can help us recognize when we might be focusing too much on the negative side of things. 
  • Reframe. For each negative thought or experience, find the silver lining. When we practice this, we train our brain to also recognize the good. 
  • Repeat. Developing a positive mindset takes practice and repetition. Implement gratitude in your daily routine to combat negativity bias. Also, remember to celebrate even the small wins in recovery to remind yourself of how far you’ve come.

There are several other tweaks we can make to our daily life that can help us minimize negativity in our lives:

  • Watch what you consume online. The media is full of negativity, from depressing news to social media posts that make us feel less-than. Be mindful of what you’re looking at and how it makes you feel. Remind yourself that a lot of online content isn’t all it appears to be, and don’t let it affect you to the point of wanting a drink.
  • Limit “doomscrolling.” While it’s important to know what’s going on in the world, it’s also important not to spend excessive amounts of time scrolling through negative or depressing content. Just read the summaries or ask a friend to give you the gist of it.
  • Redirect after setbacks. We can also use negativity bias to our advantage. For example, if we’re trying to quit or cut back on alcohol and we fall back into old patterns, we can see that slipup as an opportunity to do better. The pounding headaches, groggy mornings, and anxiety that often follow drinking can be powerful motivators to make healthier choices the next time.

We might not be able to completely eliminate the negativity bias that’s hardwired into us, but we can reframe our thoughts so we can see things from a different perspective. As Greek philosopher Epictitus said, “it’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”

A Brighter Perspective

While our mindset and willpower alone may not be able to make negative drinking habits go away (thanks to the alcohol’s impact on our brain chemistry), they can play a major role in change. Shifting to a positive mindset can boost our motivation, confidence, and resilience to quit or cut back on alcohol. So, let’s balance negativity bias with gratitude to start making the change we want to see! 

Drinking Habits
2024-10-24 9:00
Drinking Habits
Alcohol and Parenting: The Dangers of Drinking in Front of Children
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Drinking in front of your kids could influence their future drinking habits. Check out our latest blog for tips on fostering better choices, starting with yours.

14 min read

Learn the Extensive Impacts of Alcohol Use With Reframe!

Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!

The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).

The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!

Read Full Article  →

You’re out and about when suddenly your little one drops their toy and an unexpected “sh*t” comes out of their mouth. Heads turn, and you hurry back to the car, kid in tow, ready to reprimand them for cursing. But when you do, your kid says,“But you say it too!” 

You go through the usual lecture — adults do things that kids shouldn’t — but now you’re wondering the extent to which your actions impact your kids. Drinking comes to mind. You might have a glass of wine now and then with dinner or a couple of beers during football watch parties, but is it okay to drink in front of your kids? Let’s break down both sides of the argument to help you answer this question. 

Should You Drink In Front of Your Kids?

A group of friends posing joyfully

There’s a lot of nuance to this question and that makes it difficult to give a straight answer. To help you decide what’s best for you and your kids, let’s understand both sides of the argument.

Arguments For

It’s true that kids pick up on what their parents do, but some parents believe that drinking in front of the kids could actually be a good thing, especially when done responsibly. 

Drinking (moderately, of course) in front of the kids can make it more casual and less mysterious. Kids might be less inclined to be experimental or rebellious or start drinking at a young age. The transparency of drinking in front of the kids can be a way to introduce responsible drinking and teach them the harmful effects of drinking excessively. This approach takes away the “forbidden fruit” effect that could lead to underage or binge drinking

Kids who see their parents drink moderately also may be more comfortable talking about it with their parents. This open communication can be important in teaching responsible drinking and ensuring our kids feel safe to ask for support if they need it. However, it’s important to note that there can be a significant difference between kids seeing their parents drink now and then and kids seeing their parents drinking every night. 

Arguments Against

Parents who don’t think it’s okay to drink in front of their kids might view the consequences of alcohol more heavily. They themselves may drink occasionally, maybe during special occasions or social gatherings, but they might not want to expose their kids to that. They may feel that casual drinking can normalize it. 

While drinking is heavily ingrained in our social culture, kids pick up even greater influence from their parents. If kids see their parents drinking, they may not see it as something harmful and fail to recognize the serious consequences that come with it. This could negatively affect their future drinking habits because they think it’s okay. 

They may be more likely to drink casually or even be inclined to start drinking at a younger age. Or worse, if parents have negative drinking habits, kids can pick up on those, increasing their risk of alcohol misuse in the future. Let’s explore the negative effects of a child seeing their parents drunk. 

From a Child’s Perspective: The Effects of Kids Seeing Parents Drunk

When we’re drunk, we’re not our usual selves. We say things we wouldn’t normally say or do things we wouldn’t normally do. Not only is this dangerous for ourselves and our kids, it can also shape the way they see alcohol and their idea of what a healthy family dynamic is. Here’s what they might see or think:

  • “Drinking is ‘fun’ and I want to do that too.”
  • “My parents don’t care about me because they’re just getting drunk all the time.” 
  • “It’s normal for parents to get aggressive when they’re drunk.”
  • “Alcohol isn’t bad for you, my parents get drunk all the time.”
  • “I don’t want my friends to come over because my parents are drunk all the time.”
  • “When I’m stressed, alcohol will help.”
  • “I am worried about my parents’ health.”

As we can see, drinking irresponsibly in front of kids can impact the way they think and act. Let’s take a closer look at the specific consequences of this behavior. 

The Ripple Effect

The Ripple Effect: Parental Alcohol Use Effects on Children

Alcohol affects our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and as parents with kids who depend on us for guidance and safety, drinking in front of them can be risky. Here are several key factors that come into play.

  • Poor judgment. Alcohol slows down messaging in our brain, which impairs our judgment. Sound decisions are important for not only drinking responsibly but also for ensuring the health and safety of our kids.
  • Increased aggression. Drinking also lowers our inhibitions. This means that we have less control over impulses from strong emotions such as anger and stress. 
  • Passing on negative drinking habits. Research shows that kids of parents who drink heavily or regularly are more likely to develop alcohol misuse or dependence. 
  • Downplaying the damage. Parents are role models for their kids. Kids who see their parents drinking may not realize how severely alcohol affects our health and well-being since they see their parents doing it. 
  • Unstable family dynamics. When parents have negative drinking habits, it can impact the whole family. They may not be as present, which can lead to financial strain and difficulties developing positive relationships. These patterns all lead to a rocky family dynamic. The result can be increased risk of poor mental health in their kids, which can trigger unhealthy coping mechanisms in the future.

These are some potential consequences of drinking in front of kids. However, as much as we try to be good role models, we can’t completely control how our kids will turn out. The best we can do is equip them with the knowledge and resources to set them up for success. Let’s dive into some ways we can educate our kids about alcohol so they can develop a healthy relationship with alcohol for themselves. 

Tips for Teaching Kids About Alcohol

Helping our kids learn and develop a healthy relationship with alcohol can be a delicate process. Here are some tips.

  • Set clear expectations. Highlight the severity of underage drinking by setting clear expectations and consequences. Approach it by explaining the detrimental effects rather than just setting strict rules. 
  • Develop a strong relationship. Having a good relationship with your kids fosters open communication and understanding. They may be more likely to listen to what you have to say and feel more comfortable opening up to you. 
  • Lead by example. Kids don’t only learn by listening to what we teach them. They also pick up on the things we do. Set a good example by practicing responsible drinking. 
  • Encourage healthy friendships. Kids are heavily influenced by their peers. Having good influences by their side can help them make better decisions.
  • Avoid judgment. It’s important to approach with a firm but understanding tone. Avoid harsh criticism or judgment so your kids feel comfortable opening up or asking for help. 
  • Be honest. Honesty fosters trust. Even if you might not have the best relationship with alcohol now or struggled with misuse in the past, it can be helpful to let them know while teaching them to make better choices. For example, you might admit that you started drinking while you were underage, but also let them know what consequences it had and how you would do things differently. 

While we might not be able to control all the choices our kids make, these tips for increasing awareness about drinking can help them make better and more informed decisions. 

Sowing the Seeds

Just as we try not to curse or fight in front of our children, drinking can be one of those things we try to minimize due to the serious consequences it has on our health and well-being. While it might be a way to teach responsible drinking, if we go overboard we’re not only influencing our kids’ future drinking habits but also their health and well-being. Let’s sow the seeds of positive well-being in our kids by first starting with ourselves!

You’re out and about when suddenly your little one drops their toy and an unexpected “sh*t” comes out of their mouth. Heads turn, and you hurry back to the car, kid in tow, ready to reprimand them for cursing. But when you do, your kid says,“But you say it too!” 

You go through the usual lecture — adults do things that kids shouldn’t — but now you’re wondering the extent to which your actions impact your kids. Drinking comes to mind. You might have a glass of wine now and then with dinner or a couple of beers during football watch parties, but is it okay to drink in front of your kids? Let’s break down both sides of the argument to help you answer this question. 

Should You Drink In Front of Your Kids?

A group of friends posing joyfully

There’s a lot of nuance to this question and that makes it difficult to give a straight answer. To help you decide what’s best for you and your kids, let’s understand both sides of the argument.

Arguments For

It’s true that kids pick up on what their parents do, but some parents believe that drinking in front of the kids could actually be a good thing, especially when done responsibly. 

Drinking (moderately, of course) in front of the kids can make it more casual and less mysterious. Kids might be less inclined to be experimental or rebellious or start drinking at a young age. The transparency of drinking in front of the kids can be a way to introduce responsible drinking and teach them the harmful effects of drinking excessively. This approach takes away the “forbidden fruit” effect that could lead to underage or binge drinking

Kids who see their parents drink moderately also may be more comfortable talking about it with their parents. This open communication can be important in teaching responsible drinking and ensuring our kids feel safe to ask for support if they need it. However, it’s important to note that there can be a significant difference between kids seeing their parents drink now and then and kids seeing their parents drinking every night. 

Arguments Against

Parents who don’t think it’s okay to drink in front of their kids might view the consequences of alcohol more heavily. They themselves may drink occasionally, maybe during special occasions or social gatherings, but they might not want to expose their kids to that. They may feel that casual drinking can normalize it. 

While drinking is heavily ingrained in our social culture, kids pick up even greater influence from their parents. If kids see their parents drinking, they may not see it as something harmful and fail to recognize the serious consequences that come with it. This could negatively affect their future drinking habits because they think it’s okay. 

They may be more likely to drink casually or even be inclined to start drinking at a younger age. Or worse, if parents have negative drinking habits, kids can pick up on those, increasing their risk of alcohol misuse in the future. Let’s explore the negative effects of a child seeing their parents drunk. 

From a Child’s Perspective: The Effects of Kids Seeing Parents Drunk

When we’re drunk, we’re not our usual selves. We say things we wouldn’t normally say or do things we wouldn’t normally do. Not only is this dangerous for ourselves and our kids, it can also shape the way they see alcohol and their idea of what a healthy family dynamic is. Here’s what they might see or think:

  • “Drinking is ‘fun’ and I want to do that too.”
  • “My parents don’t care about me because they’re just getting drunk all the time.” 
  • “It’s normal for parents to get aggressive when they’re drunk.”
  • “Alcohol isn’t bad for you, my parents get drunk all the time.”
  • “I don’t want my friends to come over because my parents are drunk all the time.”
  • “When I’m stressed, alcohol will help.”
  • “I am worried about my parents’ health.”

As we can see, drinking irresponsibly in front of kids can impact the way they think and act. Let’s take a closer look at the specific consequences of this behavior. 

The Ripple Effect

The Ripple Effect: Parental Alcohol Use Effects on Children

Alcohol affects our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and as parents with kids who depend on us for guidance and safety, drinking in front of them can be risky. Here are several key factors that come into play.

  • Poor judgment. Alcohol slows down messaging in our brain, which impairs our judgment. Sound decisions are important for not only drinking responsibly but also for ensuring the health and safety of our kids.
  • Increased aggression. Drinking also lowers our inhibitions. This means that we have less control over impulses from strong emotions such as anger and stress. 
  • Passing on negative drinking habits. Research shows that kids of parents who drink heavily or regularly are more likely to develop alcohol misuse or dependence. 
  • Downplaying the damage. Parents are role models for their kids. Kids who see their parents drinking may not realize how severely alcohol affects our health and well-being since they see their parents doing it. 
  • Unstable family dynamics. When parents have negative drinking habits, it can impact the whole family. They may not be as present, which can lead to financial strain and difficulties developing positive relationships. These patterns all lead to a rocky family dynamic. The result can be increased risk of poor mental health in their kids, which can trigger unhealthy coping mechanisms in the future.

These are some potential consequences of drinking in front of kids. However, as much as we try to be good role models, we can’t completely control how our kids will turn out. The best we can do is equip them with the knowledge and resources to set them up for success. Let’s dive into some ways we can educate our kids about alcohol so they can develop a healthy relationship with alcohol for themselves. 

Tips for Teaching Kids About Alcohol

Helping our kids learn and develop a healthy relationship with alcohol can be a delicate process. Here are some tips.

  • Set clear expectations. Highlight the severity of underage drinking by setting clear expectations and consequences. Approach it by explaining the detrimental effects rather than just setting strict rules. 
  • Develop a strong relationship. Having a good relationship with your kids fosters open communication and understanding. They may be more likely to listen to what you have to say and feel more comfortable opening up to you. 
  • Lead by example. Kids don’t only learn by listening to what we teach them. They also pick up on the things we do. Set a good example by practicing responsible drinking. 
  • Encourage healthy friendships. Kids are heavily influenced by their peers. Having good influences by their side can help them make better decisions.
  • Avoid judgment. It’s important to approach with a firm but understanding tone. Avoid harsh criticism or judgment so your kids feel comfortable opening up or asking for help. 
  • Be honest. Honesty fosters trust. Even if you might not have the best relationship with alcohol now or struggled with misuse in the past, it can be helpful to let them know while teaching them to make better choices. For example, you might admit that you started drinking while you were underage, but also let them know what consequences it had and how you would do things differently. 

While we might not be able to control all the choices our kids make, these tips for increasing awareness about drinking can help them make better and more informed decisions. 

Sowing the Seeds

Just as we try not to curse or fight in front of our children, drinking can be one of those things we try to minimize due to the serious consequences it has on our health and well-being. While it might be a way to teach responsible drinking, if we go overboard we’re not only influencing our kids’ future drinking habits but also their health and well-being. Let’s sow the seeds of positive well-being in our kids by first starting with ourselves!

Drinking Habits
2024-10-24 9:00
Drinking Habits
What Happens When You Drink Alcohol for the First Time?
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Understanding how alcohol affects us short and long term helps us make more informed decisions. Learn what to expect the first time drinking in our latest blog.

17 min read

Practice Safe and Responsible Drinking With Reframe!

Although it isn’t a treatment for alcohol use disorder (AUD), the Reframe app can help you cut back on drinking gradually, with the science-backed knowledge to empower you 100% of the way. Our proven program has helped millions of people around the world drink less and live more. And we want to help you get there, too!

The Reframe app equips you with the knowledge and skills you need to not only survive drinking less, but to thrive while you navigate the journey. Our daily research-backed readings teach you the neuroscience of alcohol, and our in-app Toolkit provides the resources and activities you need to navigate each challenge.

You’ll meet hundreds of fellow Reframers in our 24/7 Forum chat and daily Zoom check-in meetings. Receive encouragement from people worldwide who know exactly what you’re going through! You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with our licensed Reframe coaches for more personalized guidance.

Plus, we’re always introducing new features to optimize your in-app experience. We recently launched our in-app chatbot, Melody, powered by the world’s most powerful AI technology. Melody is here to help as you adjust to a life with less (or no) alcohol. 

And that’s not all! Every month, we launch fun challenges, like Dry/Damp January, Mental Health May, and Outdoorsy June. You won’t want to miss out on the chance to participate alongside fellow Reframers (or solo if that’s more your thing!).

The Reframe app is free for 7 days, so you don’t have anything to lose by trying it. Are you ready to feel empowered and discover life beyond alcohol? Then download our app through the App Store or Google Play today!

Read Full Article  →

The first time for anything can be nerve-racking. The first day of a new job, your first time driving a car, and even your first time drinking. By no means are we encouraging drinking, but if we’re going to do it, it’s better to be informed. The more informed we are, the more mindful decisions we can make. 

To help prepare, let’s get into everything we need to know about what can happen during and after drinking, and what the long-term consequences can be. Whether we’re looking to take that first drink or not, understanding alcohol’s effects can help us protect the safety and well-being of ourselves and those around us. 

How Your First Time Drinking Could Be Different

A man is depicted holding glasses of alcohol

Maybe you’ve seen what being drunk is like from a TV show or movie, or you’ve heard first-hand from others what it’s like. But the truth is that we all respond to alcohol differently. And since it’s the first time our body is exposed to alcohol, we won’t know what to expect. Let’s take a closer look at some of the factors that can impact first-time drinking.

  • We don’t know our limits. Drinking isn’t an exact science, so some of us may tolerate alcohol better than others. We might be able to gauge how we feel based on a blood alcohol concentration chart, but since we don’t know our own limits, it can be easy to go overboard. 
  • We don’t know if we’re intolerant or allergic. Most of us don’t get tested for alcohol intolerance or allergy before drinking. Since it’s our first time, we won’t know if we’ll have any adverse effects that may guide our future choices.
  • It might be easier to give in to peer pressure. Alcohol is a common part of many social situations, often making it difficult to say no. And since we might not be used to alcohol’s effects on our judgment and decision-making, it might be even more challenging to not give in to peer pressure. 
  • We don’t know what effects we'll experience. There’s a long list of effects of alcohol intoxication, but as we’ve mentioned, we all respond differently to alcohol. After we’re more aware of what signs to look out for, we can better prevent and manage them, but the first time we experience them, we may not know what’s happening to us. 
  • We haven’t developed any tolerance. Our brain and body get used to alcohol’s effects over time, increasing our tolerance. Since it’s our first time drinking, we can have a heightened reaction to alcohol, making it more dangerous. 
  • We won’t know when to ask for help. Once we’re able to recognize the signs that we’ve had too much, we’re able to ask for help when we need it. This could be anything from asking an accountability buddy to make sure we’re not drinking anymore and grabbing a glass of water instead, to having someone drive us home or even seeking medical attention. We won’t know what to expect the first time, and we might not realize we need help. 

Alcohol affects us all differently and on top of that, these factors leave us even more in the dark when we’re drinking for the first time. To help us drink more safely and responsibly, let’s get a clearer picture of what to expect while we’re drinking, afterwards, and even in the long term. 

Alcohol’s Immediate Effects 

We can start to feel alcohol’s effects in as little as 10 minutes after drinking. The effects we feel can depend on many factors, including how much we drink, how fast we drink, whether or not we ate prior to drinking, and individual factors like our weight, health, and gender. 

At first, we might feel warmer, more relaxed, and more sociable. As more alcohol gets absorbed into our bloodstream and slows down messaging in our brain and body, we might start to feel more off balance; our judgment might be impaired;, we’re slower to respond; our vision can start to blur, and it’s harder to move our body the way we normally do. Alcohol also stimulates the release of the “feel-good” hormones serotonin and dopamine, and we might feel temporarily happy and euphoric. 

These seem manageable, right? Well, it’s easy to go overboard. When we drink too much, more dangerous effects such as vomiting, headache, confusion, slowed breathing, loss of motor control, and even loss of consciousness can occur. For a more detailed breakdown of alcohol’s effects, check out “Understanding What Does Being Drunk Feel Like: A Comprehensive Guide to Physical Sensations and Effects.” 

If you or someone you know is experiencing any severe symptoms, it’s vital to seek medication attention immediately, as intoxication can easily escalate to alcohol poisoning, which can be life-threatening. 

Alcohol’s Aftereffects

Alcohol’s effects don’t end after we finish drinking. It takes time for our body to get rid of the alcohol in our system (it does so at the rate of approximately 1 standard drink per hour). The aftereffects of alcohol are known as hangovers. 

When we drink, alcohol gets broken down into a toxic compound known as acetaldehyde. Acetaldehyde travels through our bloodstream, negatively affecting our cells and organs and causing unpleasant symptoms. Some common symptoms of an alcohol hangover include the following:

  • Dehydration 
  • Headache and body pains
  • Dizziness 
  • Sensitivity to light and sound 
  • Nausea or vomiting 
  • Fatigue 
  • Irritability 
  • Excessive sweating 

Hangovers last roughly 24 hours. When we’re drinking for the first time, we might feel more intensified effects as it’s the first time our body is exposed to alcohol. But it doesn’t end there. If we continue to drink long term, alcohol affects our health and well-being in many ways.

Alcohol’s Long-Term Effects

The toxins in alcohol cause damage to our cells and organs each time we drink. Over time, this adds up leading to poor mental health, dysfunction of our bodily systems, and increased risk of certain diseases and cancers. Alcohol is directly linked to many health issues:

  • Liver damage and disease
  • Increased risk of cardiovascular disease
  • Alcohol use disorder (AUD)
  • Increased risk of certain types of cancers
  • Memory problems
  • Mood disorders, anxiety, and depression
  • Digestive problems
  • Impaired immune function

These health issues can lead to alcohol-related mortality. In fact, research shows that about two-thirds of alcohol-related deaths are from chronic health issues. 

How Much Is Too Much? 

Drinking for the first time can involve a more intensified reaction to alcohol since our body and brain haven’t developed any tolerance. While the number of drinks considered “too many” depends on different factors, it’s a good rule of thumb to stick to and even aim for below moderate drinking guidelines. 

According to the CDC, moderate drinking refers to 2 standard drinks or fewer in a day for men and 1 standard drink or fewer in a day for women. But what’s one standard drink? While alcohol can be served in anything from a can to a pitcher, there are actually standard drink measurements. So, the “one drink” we order at the bar can actually be two to three “standard drinks.” 

Practical Tips for Your First Time Drinking Alcohol 

When we’re more informed, we can make more mindful and responsible drinking decisions. Here are some things we can do to make sure that if we’re making the choice to drink, we prioritize our well-being:

  • Be prepared. Diving into drinking without any preparation can make it more risky. Make sure a family member or friend knows what your plans are, that you have a designated driver, and that you understand what’s happening to you and don’t go overboard. 
  • Drink plenty of water. Prioritizing hydration can help combat alcohol’s dehydrating effects and ward off hangover symptoms. Have a glass of water in between drinks or get some added hydration with electrolytes.
  • Eat before. Drinking on an empty stomach can speed up alcohol absorption. Eat a balanced meal with lean protein, whole grains, fiber, and healthy fats to amp up your vitamins and nutrients beforehand. 
  • Remember that less is more. We don’t know our limits yet, and it’s so easy to go overboard. Slow down and shift the focus away from alcohol by remembering that less alcohol means more control, more authentic connections, and better health and well-being.
  • Remember that you don’t have to drink to have fun. Alcohol is often associated with fun and can be a part of many social occasions, but drinking is not a requirement for having fun. Strike up genuine conversations, and focus on the activities around you. Better yet, enjoy the occasion without the consequences with alcohol-free alternatives.
  • Switch to non-alcoholic alternatives. Try switching to a non-alcoholic beverage after every alcoholic one (either by ordering one or bringing some just in case). Then you’ll feel like you’re still “drinking,” but are pacing yourself and may even end up sticking with the non-alcoholic version for the rest of the night! 

Drinking for the first time doesn’t have to be an anxiety-provoking experience, but it’s a decision that can greatly affect our well-being. By following these tips, we can stay mindful if we’re choosing to drink.

Sip Smart

First-time drinking might seem intriguing or overwhelming, but it’s not something to take lightly. While we won’t be able to predict exactly what we’ll feel when we drink for the first time, having a general idea of alcohol’s effects will help us navigate the experience more mindfully and safely. Drinking for the first time might seem like a rite of passage into adulthood, but the reality is that it’s not, and in fact it opens the door to behaviors that can severely harm our health and well-being. If we’re making the decision to take that first drink, remember that it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, and the downsides outweigh any benefit.

The first time for anything can be nerve-racking. The first day of a new job, your first time driving a car, and even your first time drinking. By no means are we encouraging drinking, but if we’re going to do it, it’s better to be informed. The more informed we are, the more mindful decisions we can make. 

To help prepare, let’s get into everything we need to know about what can happen during and after drinking, and what the long-term consequences can be. Whether we’re looking to take that first drink or not, understanding alcohol’s effects can help us protect the safety and well-being of ourselves and those around us. 

How Your First Time Drinking Could Be Different

A man is depicted holding glasses of alcohol

Maybe you’ve seen what being drunk is like from a TV show or movie, or you’ve heard first-hand from others what it’s like. But the truth is that we all respond to alcohol differently. And since it’s the first time our body is exposed to alcohol, we won’t know what to expect. Let’s take a closer look at some of the factors that can impact first-time drinking.

  • We don’t know our limits. Drinking isn’t an exact science, so some of us may tolerate alcohol better than others. We might be able to gauge how we feel based on a blood alcohol concentration chart, but since we don’t know our own limits, it can be easy to go overboard. 
  • We don’t know if we’re intolerant or allergic. Most of us don’t get tested for alcohol intolerance or allergy before drinking. Since it’s our first time, we won’t know if we’ll have any adverse effects that may guide our future choices.
  • It might be easier to give in to peer pressure. Alcohol is a common part of many social situations, often making it difficult to say no. And since we might not be used to alcohol’s effects on our judgment and decision-making, it might be even more challenging to not give in to peer pressure. 
  • We don’t know what effects we'll experience. There’s a long list of effects of alcohol intoxication, but as we’ve mentioned, we all respond differently to alcohol. After we’re more aware of what signs to look out for, we can better prevent and manage them, but the first time we experience them, we may not know what’s happening to us. 
  • We haven’t developed any tolerance. Our brain and body get used to alcohol’s effects over time, increasing our tolerance. Since it’s our first time drinking, we can have a heightened reaction to alcohol, making it more dangerous. 
  • We won’t know when to ask for help. Once we’re able to recognize the signs that we’ve had too much, we’re able to ask for help when we need it. This could be anything from asking an accountability buddy to make sure we’re not drinking anymore and grabbing a glass of water instead, to having someone drive us home or even seeking medical attention. We won’t know what to expect the first time, and we might not realize we need help. 

Alcohol affects us all differently and on top of that, these factors leave us even more in the dark when we’re drinking for the first time. To help us drink more safely and responsibly, let’s get a clearer picture of what to expect while we’re drinking, afterwards, and even in the long term. 

Alcohol’s Immediate Effects 

We can start to feel alcohol’s effects in as little as 10 minutes after drinking. The effects we feel can depend on many factors, including how much we drink, how fast we drink, whether or not we ate prior to drinking, and individual factors like our weight, health, and gender. 

At first, we might feel warmer, more relaxed, and more sociable. As more alcohol gets absorbed into our bloodstream and slows down messaging in our brain and body, we might start to feel more off balance; our judgment might be impaired;, we’re slower to respond; our vision can start to blur, and it’s harder to move our body the way we normally do. Alcohol also stimulates the release of the “feel-good” hormones serotonin and dopamine, and we might feel temporarily happy and euphoric. 

These seem manageable, right? Well, it’s easy to go overboard. When we drink too much, more dangerous effects such as vomiting, headache, confusion, slowed breathing, loss of motor control, and even loss of consciousness can occur. For a more detailed breakdown of alcohol’s effects, check out “Understanding What Does Being Drunk Feel Like: A Comprehensive Guide to Physical Sensations and Effects.” 

If you or someone you know is experiencing any severe symptoms, it’s vital to seek medication attention immediately, as intoxication can easily escalate to alcohol poisoning, which can be life-threatening. 

Alcohol’s Aftereffects

Alcohol’s effects don’t end after we finish drinking. It takes time for our body to get rid of the alcohol in our system (it does so at the rate of approximately 1 standard drink per hour). The aftereffects of alcohol are known as hangovers. 

When we drink, alcohol gets broken down into a toxic compound known as acetaldehyde. Acetaldehyde travels through our bloodstream, negatively affecting our cells and organs and causing unpleasant symptoms. Some common symptoms of an alcohol hangover include the following:

  • Dehydration 
  • Headache and body pains
  • Dizziness 
  • Sensitivity to light and sound 
  • Nausea or vomiting 
  • Fatigue 
  • Irritability 
  • Excessive sweating 

Hangovers last roughly 24 hours. When we’re drinking for the first time, we might feel more intensified effects as it’s the first time our body is exposed to alcohol. But it doesn’t end there. If we continue to drink long term, alcohol affects our health and well-being in many ways.

Alcohol’s Long-Term Effects

The toxins in alcohol cause damage to our cells and organs each time we drink. Over time, this adds up leading to poor mental health, dysfunction of our bodily systems, and increased risk of certain diseases and cancers. Alcohol is directly linked to many health issues:

  • Liver damage and disease
  • Increased risk of cardiovascular disease
  • Alcohol use disorder (AUD)
  • Increased risk of certain types of cancers
  • Memory problems
  • Mood disorders, anxiety, and depression
  • Digestive problems
  • Impaired immune function

These health issues can lead to alcohol-related mortality. In fact, research shows that about two-thirds of alcohol-related deaths are from chronic health issues. 

How Much Is Too Much? 

Drinking for the first time can involve a more intensified reaction to alcohol since our body and brain haven’t developed any tolerance. While the number of drinks considered “too many” depends on different factors, it’s a good rule of thumb to stick to and even aim for below moderate drinking guidelines. 

According to the CDC, moderate drinking refers to 2 standard drinks or fewer in a day for men and 1 standard drink or fewer in a day for women. But what’s one standard drink? While alcohol can be served in anything from a can to a pitcher, there are actually standard drink measurements. So, the “one drink” we order at the bar can actually be two to three “standard drinks.” 

Practical Tips for Your First Time Drinking Alcohol 

When we’re more informed, we can make more mindful and responsible drinking decisions. Here are some things we can do to make sure that if we’re making the choice to drink, we prioritize our well-being:

  • Be prepared. Diving into drinking without any preparation can make it more risky. Make sure a family member or friend knows what your plans are, that you have a designated driver, and that you understand what’s happening to you and don’t go overboard. 
  • Drink plenty of water. Prioritizing hydration can help combat alcohol’s dehydrating effects and ward off hangover symptoms. Have a glass of water in between drinks or get some added hydration with electrolytes.
  • Eat before. Drinking on an empty stomach can speed up alcohol absorption. Eat a balanced meal with lean protein, whole grains, fiber, and healthy fats to amp up your vitamins and nutrients beforehand. 
  • Remember that less is more. We don’t know our limits yet, and it’s so easy to go overboard. Slow down and shift the focus away from alcohol by remembering that less alcohol means more control, more authentic connections, and better health and well-being.
  • Remember that you don’t have to drink to have fun. Alcohol is often associated with fun and can be a part of many social occasions, but drinking is not a requirement for having fun. Strike up genuine conversations, and focus on the activities around you. Better yet, enjoy the occasion without the consequences with alcohol-free alternatives.
  • Switch to non-alcoholic alternatives. Try switching to a non-alcoholic beverage after every alcoholic one (either by ordering one or bringing some just in case). Then you’ll feel like you’re still “drinking,” but are pacing yourself and may even end up sticking with the non-alcoholic version for the rest of the night! 

Drinking for the first time doesn’t have to be an anxiety-provoking experience, but it’s a decision that can greatly affect our well-being. By following these tips, we can stay mindful if we’re choosing to drink.

Sip Smart

First-time drinking might seem intriguing or overwhelming, but it’s not something to take lightly. While we won’t be able to predict exactly what we’ll feel when we drink for the first time, having a general idea of alcohol’s effects will help us navigate the experience more mindfully and safely. Drinking for the first time might seem like a rite of passage into adulthood, but the reality is that it’s not, and in fact it opens the door to behaviors that can severely harm our health and well-being. If we’re making the decision to take that first drink, remember that it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, and the downsides outweigh any benefit.

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Redefining Connections: How Alcohol and Sobriety Affect Friendships
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Alcohol and sobriety can change the dynamics of our relationships. Check out our latest blog for tips to navigate friendships with and without alcohol.

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You’re at a party surrounded by people. But since you’re not drinking, you might wonder if you’re lacking authentic connections with others. You’ve decided to make the commitment to sobriety, but now you find yourself thinking: “I have no friends because I don’t drink.” If you’re thinking this, you’re not alone. These are common feelings, but there are a lot of myths surrounding them! Contrary to popular belief, alcohol doesn’t strengthen friendships. In fact, it normally does the opposite because of the way alcohol affects our behavior and perception. 

Alcohol can give us a false sense of connection, so when we stop drinking, we might feel lonely, like we’ve severed the ties to our friends we used to drink with. Navigating this change can be difficult, but it’s a key step in developing more authentic friendships and connections.

How Does Alcohol Affect Friendships?

Three women raising beer bottles in a toast, seated on a couch

It’s just a drink, right? Not exactly. Alcohol might seem like just a choice of beverage, but it can have a major impact on our friendships and connections. Let’s see how:

The “Social Glue” 

At first glance, alcohol can seem like the thing that brings people together. Alcohol lowers our inhibitions, making it easier to talk to others. We might be more open to meeting new people, giving us the false impression that alcohol might mean more friends. 

Alcohol also boosts the release of our “feel-good” hormones dopamine and serotonin, giving us a temporary sense of pleasure and connection. On top of that, sharing a drink with others can help us feel closer to them. As a result, our friendships and the things we do together can start to revolve around alcohol. But hey, it’s a good time, right? 

It might seem like it at first, but the truth is that alcohol is a mind-altering drug that changes the way we think and act. That camaraderie we feel with those around us when we drink can feel like connection, but it can also lead to inauthentic friendships. Let’s see how things can take a turn. 

Things Get Sticky

We might feel good when we’re drinking, but alcohol's depressant effects kick in shortly after that first sip. Our mood can drop, we might feel anxious, and to top it off, we’re also not feeling our best physically, especially the morning after. When our friendships revolve around drinking, we might just be looking forward to our next “hangout,” but in the meantime, we might feel lonely and empty, leading to anxious attachment and a greater drive to drink with friends. 

This might lead to alcohol dependence. Maybe we start to drink more than our friends and it’s hard to stop. They may not agree or show concern about our drinking habits, also potentially affecting our friendships.

Not only that, but peer pressure among friends can affect friendships. In fact, one study in the UK found that 85% of people have at some point been pressured by their friends to drink more. If we don’t want to drink more but we do anyway, we might resent those friends later, and if we decide not to drink despite the pressure, we might feel judged. Not good either way!

As we can see, alcohol may seem like the “social glue” and the core of our friendships, but things can quickly get messy. 

If you’re looking to develop more authentic connections and want to take that step toward sobriety, keep reading! We’ll explore how quitting alcohol can also affect friendships, so we can better navigate the situation.

How Can Sobriety Affect Friendships?

We just said that sobriety brings more genuine connections with others, and while this is true, it may come with its own challenges at the beginning. Since alcohol gives us a false sense of connection, when we quit drinking, it may seem like we’re losing all our friends. 

You’ve gone sober and you're left wondering “Why does my friend treat me differently now?” If the friendship revolved around drinking, it might seem like you don’t have much in common now. Navigating friendships during our sobriety journey can be complex. While it might seem as if we’re losing friends, our journey gives us a chance to develop new friendships that better align with our new lifestyle. And it’s possible that those new friends will enjoy us for who we are and not because we’re drinking. But to accomplish this transition, we need to first recognize that alcohol gives us a false sense of connection.

Overcoming the Mentality of “I Have No Friends Because I Don’t Drink”

When we overcome this feeling, we help ourselves open up to new friendships and redefine our inner circle. Here are some tips: 

  • Understand alcohol’s impact. Recognizing that alcohol gives us a false sense of connection helps us realize that we’re not missing out on anything. Alcohol’s buzz can quickly result in an angry argument, an embarrassing slip of the tongue, or any other awkward situation that actually harms our friendships rather than strengthening them.
  • Focus on what we have. It’s natural for our brain to focus on the negative. This is known as negativity bias. When we shift our focus to the things we’re gaining in sobriety, we can develop a more positive attitude, allowing us to be more open to connecting with others. 
  • Open up to others. Finding new friends (especially as adults) can be challenging. The key is to be open to connecting with others. Introduce yourself to the person standing next to you in yoga class, or strike up a conversation with a new coworker.
  • Find friends whose values align with our own. We might lose our “drinking buddies,” but by developing new friendships, we have the opportunity to meet and connect with others who might share the same values we have now. And who knows, maybe some of those drinking buddies will also join in the sober activities, and we can explore new sides of the friendship!

Now that we’re ready to meet new people, where do we begin? Is AA or any other support group the way to meet new friends?

Overcoming the Mentality of “I Have No Friends Because I Don’t Drink”

Sober Friends vs. AA and Other Support Groups

The focus of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other support groups is to help us overcome negative drinking habits with the support of others. While it’s not exactly like Bumble BFF, it can be a great way to meet people who have similar values or are going through a similar experience. 

However, it’s not the only way to make friends, and there can be some downsides. In a support group, others may also be struggling with their relationship with alcohol. As we’re making progress, others struggling or relapsing can be triggering. Plus, it can be easy to compare our journey to others, jeopardizing our own progress.

While support groups can be a way to meet new friends, we can also branch out. Let’s explore some practical strategies to help us redefine our inner circle.

Tips for Finding Sober Friends

Not all our friends need to be sober to respect our choices, but having sober friends can be beneficial. They might feel few and far between with the way alcohol is often integrated into our social settings, but these practices can help us develop our sober friendships. 

  • Be open to others. Oftentimes we’re more closed off than we think. For example, maybe we go into a support group only seeing it as a way to develop more positive drinking habits, and there’s no time for meeting new people. Practice striking up conversations with others and make yourself more approachable. 
  • Explore hobbies and passions. Doing what we love is a great way to find people with similar interests. Join a new workout class or start a hiking club in your community to meet new people.
  • Inspire others. Friends have strong influences on one another. Have you ever found yourself using the same lingo or picking up on their mannerisms? One way to develop sober friendships is to inspire those around you to also engage in healthy habits. 
  • Let go of comparison. We might see others partying with massive friend groups, making it seem like we have no friends in comparison. When we let go of comparison to others, we can recognize what we do have — closer, more authentic friendships. 
  • Be yourself. In the words of Roy T. Bennet, “You attract who you are being.” Stay true to yourself and your values, and others with the same values will eventually gravitate towards you. 

These tips can help us redefine our friendships and navigate the disruptions that alcohol and sobriety can have on our relationships.

Clarity and Authentic Connections

Now that we understand how alcohol negatively affects our friendships, we can navigate the feeling of losing friends after committing to sobriety. Instead of losing friends, we’re gaining more authentic connections and finding people around us who support us and our values. As Tennessee Williams said, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.” And the nice thing about friends is that there’s always room for more of them.

You’re at a party surrounded by people. But since you’re not drinking, you might wonder if you’re lacking authentic connections with others. You’ve decided to make the commitment to sobriety, but now you find yourself thinking: “I have no friends because I don’t drink.” If you’re thinking this, you’re not alone. These are common feelings, but there are a lot of myths surrounding them! Contrary to popular belief, alcohol doesn’t strengthen friendships. In fact, it normally does the opposite because of the way alcohol affects our behavior and perception. 

Alcohol can give us a false sense of connection, so when we stop drinking, we might feel lonely, like we’ve severed the ties to our friends we used to drink with. Navigating this change can be difficult, but it’s a key step in developing more authentic friendships and connections.

How Does Alcohol Affect Friendships?

Three women raising beer bottles in a toast, seated on a couch

It’s just a drink, right? Not exactly. Alcohol might seem like just a choice of beverage, but it can have a major impact on our friendships and connections. Let’s see how:

The “Social Glue” 

At first glance, alcohol can seem like the thing that brings people together. Alcohol lowers our inhibitions, making it easier to talk to others. We might be more open to meeting new people, giving us the false impression that alcohol might mean more friends. 

Alcohol also boosts the release of our “feel-good” hormones dopamine and serotonin, giving us a temporary sense of pleasure and connection. On top of that, sharing a drink with others can help us feel closer to them. As a result, our friendships and the things we do together can start to revolve around alcohol. But hey, it’s a good time, right? 

It might seem like it at first, but the truth is that alcohol is a mind-altering drug that changes the way we think and act. That camaraderie we feel with those around us when we drink can feel like connection, but it can also lead to inauthentic friendships. Let’s see how things can take a turn. 

Things Get Sticky

We might feel good when we’re drinking, but alcohol's depressant effects kick in shortly after that first sip. Our mood can drop, we might feel anxious, and to top it off, we’re also not feeling our best physically, especially the morning after. When our friendships revolve around drinking, we might just be looking forward to our next “hangout,” but in the meantime, we might feel lonely and empty, leading to anxious attachment and a greater drive to drink with friends. 

This might lead to alcohol dependence. Maybe we start to drink more than our friends and it’s hard to stop. They may not agree or show concern about our drinking habits, also potentially affecting our friendships.

Not only that, but peer pressure among friends can affect friendships. In fact, one study in the UK found that 85% of people have at some point been pressured by their friends to drink more. If we don’t want to drink more but we do anyway, we might resent those friends later, and if we decide not to drink despite the pressure, we might feel judged. Not good either way!

As we can see, alcohol may seem like the “social glue” and the core of our friendships, but things can quickly get messy. 

If you’re looking to develop more authentic connections and want to take that step toward sobriety, keep reading! We’ll explore how quitting alcohol can also affect friendships, so we can better navigate the situation.

How Can Sobriety Affect Friendships?

We just said that sobriety brings more genuine connections with others, and while this is true, it may come with its own challenges at the beginning. Since alcohol gives us a false sense of connection, when we quit drinking, it may seem like we’re losing all our friends. 

You’ve gone sober and you're left wondering “Why does my friend treat me differently now?” If the friendship revolved around drinking, it might seem like you don’t have much in common now. Navigating friendships during our sobriety journey can be complex. While it might seem as if we’re losing friends, our journey gives us a chance to develop new friendships that better align with our new lifestyle. And it’s possible that those new friends will enjoy us for who we are and not because we’re drinking. But to accomplish this transition, we need to first recognize that alcohol gives us a false sense of connection.

Overcoming the Mentality of “I Have No Friends Because I Don’t Drink”

When we overcome this feeling, we help ourselves open up to new friendships and redefine our inner circle. Here are some tips: 

  • Understand alcohol’s impact. Recognizing that alcohol gives us a false sense of connection helps us realize that we’re not missing out on anything. Alcohol’s buzz can quickly result in an angry argument, an embarrassing slip of the tongue, or any other awkward situation that actually harms our friendships rather than strengthening them.
  • Focus on what we have. It’s natural for our brain to focus on the negative. This is known as negativity bias. When we shift our focus to the things we’re gaining in sobriety, we can develop a more positive attitude, allowing us to be more open to connecting with others. 
  • Open up to others. Finding new friends (especially as adults) can be challenging. The key is to be open to connecting with others. Introduce yourself to the person standing next to you in yoga class, or strike up a conversation with a new coworker.
  • Find friends whose values align with our own. We might lose our “drinking buddies,” but by developing new friendships, we have the opportunity to meet and connect with others who might share the same values we have now. And who knows, maybe some of those drinking buddies will also join in the sober activities, and we can explore new sides of the friendship!

Now that we’re ready to meet new people, where do we begin? Is AA or any other support group the way to meet new friends?

Overcoming the Mentality of “I Have No Friends Because I Don’t Drink”

Sober Friends vs. AA and Other Support Groups

The focus of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other support groups is to help us overcome negative drinking habits with the support of others. While it’s not exactly like Bumble BFF, it can be a great way to meet people who have similar values or are going through a similar experience. 

However, it’s not the only way to make friends, and there can be some downsides. In a support group, others may also be struggling with their relationship with alcohol. As we’re making progress, others struggling or relapsing can be triggering. Plus, it can be easy to compare our journey to others, jeopardizing our own progress.

While support groups can be a way to meet new friends, we can also branch out. Let’s explore some practical strategies to help us redefine our inner circle.

Tips for Finding Sober Friends

Not all our friends need to be sober to respect our choices, but having sober friends can be beneficial. They might feel few and far between with the way alcohol is often integrated into our social settings, but these practices can help us develop our sober friendships. 

  • Be open to others. Oftentimes we’re more closed off than we think. For example, maybe we go into a support group only seeing it as a way to develop more positive drinking habits, and there’s no time for meeting new people. Practice striking up conversations with others and make yourself more approachable. 
  • Explore hobbies and passions. Doing what we love is a great way to find people with similar interests. Join a new workout class or start a hiking club in your community to meet new people.
  • Inspire others. Friends have strong influences on one another. Have you ever found yourself using the same lingo or picking up on their mannerisms? One way to develop sober friendships is to inspire those around you to also engage in healthy habits. 
  • Let go of comparison. We might see others partying with massive friend groups, making it seem like we have no friends in comparison. When we let go of comparison to others, we can recognize what we do have — closer, more authentic friendships. 
  • Be yourself. In the words of Roy T. Bennet, “You attract who you are being.” Stay true to yourself and your values, and others with the same values will eventually gravitate towards you. 

These tips can help us redefine our friendships and navigate the disruptions that alcohol and sobriety can have on our relationships.

Clarity and Authentic Connections

Now that we understand how alcohol negatively affects our friendships, we can navigate the feeling of losing friends after committing to sobriety. Instead of losing friends, we’re gaining more authentic connections and finding people around us who support us and our values. As Tennessee Williams said, “Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.” And the nice thing about friends is that there’s always room for more of them.

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